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Is it wrong to move away from a daughter(11) who don't want me in her life?

I am lost for words and I am still utterly shocked that my daughter is capable of almost pushing me downstairs. After I confronted her about her phone, that everytime I ring, it wont connect to her number. This has been happening for almost 2 weeks now, and she refused to show me the settings of her phone. I tried confiscating her phone due to her verbal abuse towards me and she refused to do so, and she threatened me of pushing me downstairs. Her father was there, just making approval everytime my daughter gives me verbal abuse and even threatened me of inflicting pain towards me. I just don't understand that a father would tolerate such disrespect towards her own mother.

I want to move away from this house hold. Right now, I just want to end everything. I am sad that my daughter who used to be sweet and loving, is turning into an agressive child. My heart is shattered into pieces. 💔💔💔

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room101 · 51-55, M

Have you considered that perhaps "the father" is not simply tolerating the behaviour of your daughter but is actually involved in some way?

Madmonk · M

I was thinking the same thing @room101

room101 · 51-55, M

@Madmonk Seems pretty obvious to me🤷‍♂️. Classic gaslighting

tryingtobeOK · 36-40, F

My friend told me that, last night.

It's strange because , my husband can contact her phone but I can't.

It's my one way of telling her about dinner. As she never answers if I call her by shouting.
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room101 · 51-55, M

@tryingtobeOK Sorry to say this but, to me, this is more about your relationship with your husband than it is about you and your daughter.

A few people have commented about disciplining an unruly child, the child going through whatever, what it was like when they were growing up and so on and so forth. To me, all of those things are side issues.

From what you've said, both in your opening post and your replies to others, I strongly advise you to take a long, hard and honest look at your husband.

Madmonk · M

I hate to say it but you are right. @room101