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I wish I had a baby
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Adam1985 · 36-40, M
Have you tried in vitro fertilization or surrogate mother methods?
woodyemma2013 · 36-40, F
@Adam1985 I just need a man lol
Adam1985 · 36-40, M
Good luck! R U interested N the whole package (a family) or just having a maternal baby fever spell?🤔
woodyemma2013 · 36-40, F
@Adam1985 I wanted the full deal but it just wasn't to be it seems and now I feel time is running out fast
Adam1985 · 36-40, M
Some people don't get married or even have babies until their 40s. Maybe you should hit the bar (have yourself a "Knocked Up" moment).🤣 Although that could cause more problems than it solves.
woodyemma2013 · 36-40, F
But the chances decrease rapidly from mid 30's
Adam1985 · 36-40, M
What's ur opinion on sex in general? U said it takes 2 to tango.
woodyemma2013 · 36-40, F
It's good if you have someone to enjoy it with
Adam1985 · 36-40, M
Well to clarify myself, what I mean is is an emotional connection/love an important factor 4 u or not?
woodyemma2013 · 36-40, F
Oh yes for sure it is
Adam1985 · 36-40, M
Well I agree with U. I was married 4 a yr and a half, but my ex and I didn't truly connect with eachother, it was nothing but regret. Plus I'm old fashioned (I'm not into booty calls or one-night stands). Sex w/out love is empty. Also can lead 2 UNWANTED pregnancy/STDs.😖
woodyemma2013 · 36-40, F
I agree about the sex and the stds but no baby would ever be unwanted here no matter the circumstances that created it
Adam1985 · 36-40, M
So U would B ok raising a baby completely alone? In my opinion it's BOTH the man's/woman's responsibility 2 raise a child they conceived.
woodyemma2013 · 36-40, F
Yes I have no issues raising a child alone if that's how things pan out
Adam1985 · 36-40, M
By the way, I'm not judging U or saying ur incapable of raising a child on ur own (especially if U work N a nursery), but U shouldn't have 2. Just don't act desperate when U go "daddy hunting" or it'll never work out. Have U considered freezing ur embryos, cuz then U could wait until "Mr. Right" came along?
woodyemma2013 · 36-40, F
Freezing them costs alot of money and uneccessary medical procedures. If it doesn't happen with Mr right it'll be by artificial insemination using a donor
Adam1985 · 36-40, M
Honestly I wish you the best of luck N ur endeavors.🤗 I also dream of 1 day having my own family.
woodyemma2013 · 36-40, F
You'd think it'd be the easiest thing in the world to achieve but it's not
@woodyemma2013 its super simple, you just need to be slutty for a while, it will happen. Start timing your ovulation days, then hit the bars, tell the guys you want their sperm, pick the married guys and never ask their name, just a random encounter. It could be very exciting, but you have to get over the hangup of wanting to be prego, but not wanting sex.
woodyemma2013 · 36-40, F
@UreBesFrend never mentioned not wanting sex but I certainly won't be sleeping around. More likely to catch std's than get pregnant.
@woodyemma2013 Ok, well good luck then, the solution IS simple, you just have to accept it.