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I am guessing not.

As you may or may not know I am creeping up on 50 fast and I never hide that fact.

Recently I met a woman who is 39 and we talked for awhile and then feelings started to grow on both sides, and before I got too attached I made sure that the age gap wasn't an issue. She assured me that it wasn't,case I keep myself in good shape and am healthy and age is just a number.

We got to the point of looking for a place to live together, both of us sharing opinions on what we wanted and luckily we liked the same things.

At the 11th all of a sudden my age became a huge issue for her and she wanted time to think about it. Which I understand and respect. She wanted sometime apart to see if this is right. So with my heart broken I again said I respect her wishes and I will leave her alone until she can figure things out.

Now here is the confusing part, she says she wants space but will call or text on a daily basis and if I talked about us she gets mad.

Am I missing something?
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SW-User
It's definitely not about your age. I hate saying this but it's possible she met someone else that she's attracted to and wants to see if it might lead anywhere without cutting you loose yet. You could be her back up plan.

Or, she panicked about moving in together and isn't ready.
VanBCguy · 51-55, M
@SW-User you are probably right on one of those.
VanBCguy · 51-55, M
@SW-User Well I may have to throw it out there and ask and probably end it for good, at least that way I will know.