Please anyone that has been able to live past triggers or bad thoughts based related to abuse that may have happened in your life, please i need advice. I have triggers from certain words. They're not bad words, but when they come from a boy i have triggers. I had one some minutes ago, and i don't like how it affects me or how i feel. It is irritating. Words like 'Goodnight, bye bye,' or some beautiful words, from boys can cause triggers for me. If it comes from a girl i don't feel anything like that or more specifically i prefer such words from girls and not boys. Please, anyone who can help as well please give me advice.