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I Practice Mindfulness

I recently took a mindfulness course. In a way, it was quite useful, it made me realise how often I am distracted, and how many of my daily chores I do in an 'automatic mode', not really paying attention to them.

However, there was something that did not agree with me, it was how repeatedly we were told to accept and not judge things. I know we cannot change many things, and the only way for happiness is accepting that some things have to happen.

However, I am positive that not everything must be accepted and remain unjudged. Some things are right, others are wrong, and the first step to try to change a situation is realising it is wrong.

I find mindfulness (and psychology in general) too individualistic, too focused on 'what can I do in such state of things', but oblivious of the 'what can I do to change, if only a tiny bit, such state of things'. I cannot help thinking it encourages conformism, and that's the reason why it is so in fashion now.
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@Cierzo Judgement is an unavoidable part of life. It becomes oppression when it is used to assess and deem wrong something that is none of my business.

Deciding what is or is not my concern is the tricky part. My personal decision is ‘if what you are doing does not in my perception cause harm or loss to another, AND no person or animal who is not competent to give consent is involved, then it’s nunna mine’. (Not my business.)

Anything which falls outside those parameters IS my business, as a citizen of Earth.

In my philosophy, consensual adult sexual behavior is not my business. Using children or animals for the sexual aims of adults IS my business.

A boxing match between adults is not my concern. Humans staging a dog fight for entertainment and profit IS.