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I Practice Mindfulness

I recently took a mindfulness course. In a way, it was quite useful, it made me realise how often I am distracted, and how many of my daily chores I do in an 'automatic mode', not really paying attention to them.

However, there was something that did not agree with me, it was how repeatedly we were told to accept and not judge things. I know we cannot change many things, and the only way for happiness is accepting that some things have to happen.

However, I am positive that not everything must be accepted and remain unjudged. Some things are right, others are wrong, and the first step to try to change a situation is realising it is wrong.

I find mindfulness (and psychology in general) too individualistic, too focused on 'what can I do in such state of things', but oblivious of the 'what can I do to change, if only a tiny bit, such state of things'. I cannot help thinking it encourages conformism, and that's the reason why it is so in fashion now.
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This global ban on judgment is a straw man. It is nonsense for anyone to say they ‘do not judge.’

Walking home at night, you pause on a corner and see a dark figure lounging in a doorway on one of the two routes you can take, and you take the other route. Judgement.

You share a deeply personal secret with a friend who then shouts your secret from l the rooftops. You end the friendship. Judgement.

It’s 15 minutes to end-of-day at the office and you decide not to start a new task until tomorrow. Judgement.
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@Mamapolo2016 True. This 'I do not judge' thing sounds very cool, but it is a lie. If we did not judge at all, children would still die from smallpox or polio, since it would not be considering a bad thing.

We have to judge wisely, trying to walk in other people's shoes and understand their reasons, and realising that our actions have an impact on others.