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Do you think being competitive is good or bad?

SW-User
Both. Pretty much everything is both
JavaJoe · 51-55, M
I think competition is healthy to a certain degree. That point is while the competitive event is in progress, I.e., the game, contest, or race is being held. It’s natural to want to do your best and win. However, you have to be able to let it go, and accept defeat or lackluster performance if that’s what the outcome was. You shouldn’t dwell or be a sore loser. That is where it becomes unhealthy.
Good.. it’s evil to demonise it and give participation awards to everyone..
It's good until you let it go to your head.
Seriously? The aggressor always wins.
I don’t what you’re talking about. I don’t compete. I do my own thing. @Frank52
This reply was off the wall. @Frank52
Frank52 · 70-79, M
I hope you didn't think that the term 'loser' was in any way aimed at you. I was making a comment about losers generally and I have no reason to think you are one.
SW-User
It's good.
But the ability to be a good sportsman is important when a person is competitive. Or it becomes bad.
pennynoodles · 56-60, F
A little competition shouldn't hurt much but best not to take things too seriously.
Sweetthing · F
Good as long as it is in the right circumstances and forum
oppress · 22-25, F
Good until you become an insufferable arsehole about it
Dainbramadge · 56-60, M
It's great if your not a toxic person to begin with.
Northerner · 70-79, M
It is good. This is part of life.
rachelsj · 22-25, F
Little of both
Nyloncapes · 61-69, M
Good in sport
Tracos · 51-55, M
Frank52 · 70-79, M
Good only if you can handle winning or losing with the same equanimity and don't have your whole ego and ability to relate to people wrapped up in the outcome.
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
On balance, bad.
Be competitive all you want but if the decision making is not in your hands....what's the point ?
SW-User
It's a good thing....unless you're a dick about it... I can be a dick about it😬
That depends. Is it a competition? If not, no.
Reject · 26-30, M
Not if you can't handle losing.
SW-User
Depends on the circumstances. When there’s nothing at stake, nothing to be won or lost, having a competitive nature can be a [b]disadvantage[/b].
NudasPriest · 46-50, M
When the goal is to inspire all parties to up their game, then it's a very good thing.

 
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