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I don’t know how to deal with being hurt deeply

In life, when you love and only get hurt in return. It just hurts. And there’s a moment of weird useless I wish I didn’t exist feeling...
Sometimes a moment of anger, grief, hatred, humiliation? wondering what I did that was wrong, then wanting to blame someone else. And finally some sense of relief mixed with stupidity? Then -it’s gone. But in the moment... those moments were hours. So weird.
SubstantialKick · 31-35, M
I've been hurt so many times, that I've learned to just expect it.
Mindful · 56-60, F
@SubstantialKick I think this pain is because it was unexpected
Bang5luts · M
@SubstantialKick don't! Instead try to set boundaries and you'll do fine.
Bang5luts · M
Hours? Was your relationship just a month or two long?
Mindful · 56-60, F
@Bang5luts not at all... I’m in a different level of anguish is all... maybe it’s all in my head
Bang5luts · M
You misunderstand me. Don't feel bad. I have that effect on almost all people. @Mindful I meant the opposite. It takes me at a minimum of a year before I can manage my life after a relationship ends. I'm not down playing your pain. Even though it's been more than a year since my last relationship I still stop in the middle of the day and it hurts out of no where. Embrace that feeling, let it momentarily consume you, cry, dry your eyes and tell yourself you got this! Because you do! Don't ever down play pain, or it will haunt you until you face it. And don't ever apologize for your pain!
Mindful · 56-60, F
@Bang5lutsmee too. thank you for your words.
Bang5luts · M
Oh. I guess is was me who misunderstood your post. I apologize!
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Mindful · 56-60, F
@Stereoguy very well
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