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I Am An Mra

Mike Buchanan shows the caring side of your typical MRA on AVFM......


Brian Hildebrandt Mike Buchanan • 3 days ago

Hmmm... okay. Thanks for your response. I checked out the links you sent me.

Just seeing the phrase 'Lying Woman of the Month' gave me a negative visceral reaction, and I'm an MRA. I could just imagine what the average woman (feminist or not), mangina or white knight would feel.

Maybe I'm oversensitive but the phrase appears to implicitly stereotype women as liars, similar to how the "Don't be that Guy" campaign does with men.

I would have to ask, what is the primary purpose of these awards? Are they intended to inform, persuade, or broaden interest among readership? I wouldn't want it to manifest as just an echo chamber.

Hopefully I'm not coming across as too pompous. I'm just trying to understand your position a little better.

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Mike Buchanan Brian Hildebrandt • 3 days ago

Brand, you claim to be an MRA, yet you write this:
"I could just imagine what the average woman (feminist or not), mangina or white knight would feel."
If you're an MRA - which I very much doubt - why would you give a flying f*** what feminists, manginas, or white knights would 'feel'? You wouldn't, by definition. You've already wasted enough of my time. I don't know what you're doing on an AVfM comment stream. You're a dose of Polonum 210 I could do without. Feel free to pollute this comment stream, just don't expect any more responses from me. Goodbye."

See how enlightened these AVFM stalwarts are? A reasonably put argument about changing the word "woman" to "feminist" is met by a hail of abuse.

Jackie Boy Barnes is just the same...a gender ba<x>sed hater.
JackBarnesMRA
Her is another female Mra for Asian.
http://kristalgarcia.wordpress.com

Oh no! She's a dom! The horror.
Mikemcneil · 61-69, M
It's straightforward to see why she did it. She was deceitful. She didn't tell people she was going to post those pics on her MRA blog or why she was doing it. Ever get the feeling you have been had?
JackBarnesMRA
So if she had asked them if she could take their picture holding the sign (like she did) but posted them to some other blog it would have been ok?
Mikemcneil · 61-69, M
Obviously not. She acted on the words of an MRA then posted pics on her own website which states she is an MRA. She mumbled some crap about Game of Thrones to get the pics. Is this the best an MRA can do? You lot are pathetic!
JackBarnesMRA
Asian, what business is it of yours? Lana and her husband are consenting adults. Their relationship And how it is constructed is no ones concern but theirs. Lana doesn't want all men to how before her just her husband. If her husband agrees to this arrangement then more power to both of them. It's none of your concern. Her and her husbands life style choice has no baring what so ever on her ability to he an MRA. She believes and fights for equal rights for men and stands against feminism. That is all that is required.

You are only showing your ignorance and a closed mind.
JackBarnesMRA
Nope. But I'm not into the dom/sub lifestyle either.
Mikemcneil · 61-69, M
I notice you didn't get back to me with a witty comeback....lost for words again?
JustJeni
I'm soooooooo confused. Gay? or Straight? Black? or White? Thin? or Fat? Intelligent? mmm-mmmm...
JackBarnesMRA
Obviously a true MRA doesn't care what a feminist, white knight or a mangina thinks. Why should anyone care what another person thinks ba<x>sed solely on the fact that the other person is a woman?
JackBarnesMRA
I can't comment on why he did something based solely on the comment you quoted. That's why I need the link.
I can tell you that if I were to feature a "lying (whatever) of the month award" I would go after people who tell lies about men and boys, false statistics, bigoted propaganda etc. Why Mike singled out women I don't know. You will have to ask him.
Mikemcneil · 61-69, M
Somebody did ask him. I included that in the story. I have quoted him in full and added nothing or left nothing out. I have no problem with him calling out liars at all, feminist or not. In this reply he accuses the guy of lying about being a true MRA to start with just for asking the question.
Mikemcneil · 61-69, M
http://www.avoiceformen.com/just-plain-crazy/a-woman-asks-the-everyday-sexiam-project-seriously-everydaysexism/

Check the first few comments.
westsideblues1
"first"><p>below is a mess.... i got off from a fake ,mra account

---------------------------------------;Derek0101 said: ;
I think we have the same values regarding basic moral standing. ;
a while ago
Reply ;
GinaTingles - 70+ years old ;
Reply by GinaTingles Mar 29th, 2014 at 1:52PM

;Thanks Derek, for the support. This account is one of several that is part of an anti-immorality raid taking place on EP, feel free to join us by following the activity on this page. Our goal is to destroy the validation of evil people on EP. You are added to circles.;
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of course we all know who Gina tingles is lol ..

;child lover dozer dan/
Vivagalore
Gina Tingles is a disgusting name...it's trying to be clever but, it refers to the term vagina tingles (as in turned on) MRA/PUAs started shortening the phrase to ginatingles .

http://www.avoiceformen.com/women/nothing-makes-a-gina-tingle-like-a-killa/


http://deansdale.wordpress.com/2011/02/03/if-you-can%E2%80%99t-get-laid-read-this-%E2%80%93-part-3/


http://alpha-status.blogspot.com/2010/02/women-are-all-same-part-v.html?m=1
Mikemcneil · 61-69, M
In the world of MRAs and MRMs women are routinely classed as sexual objects. It's their shorthand for a complete gender hatred.
Mikemcneil · 61-69, M
http://www.avoiceformen.com/just-plain-crazy/a-woman-asks-the-everyday-sexiam-project-seriously-everydaysexism/

A link to the AVFM article this was taken from.
westsideblues1
I'm seriously thinking about it .

her past will come back to bite her ass!!! and yes jack ass copy paste this to her!!! lmffo!!! lololol hahahah

she bashes women but yet she teaches men to be submissive to them!! makes no sense!!! !! what evfer!
Vivagalore
Interesting she didn't even post new material. She posted the same exact story here ! With the same typos and grammatical errors .
westsideblues1
exactly...
Vivagalore
" Mras don't judge people's relationships."--jackoffbarnes

Then please explain MGTOWs.

And all the articles about avoiding marriage. The term "white knight".

All these are judgements by MRAs againstthe relationships of others.
bluelady1021
So true saint. We see them continuously ridicule and criticize men who treat women respectfully, lovingly, kindly, and caringly. They act as if no one, except MRA men, should ever be praised and admired, and put up on a pedestal for the good deeds they do (particularly for women). They treat everyone else like they are just nobody or are pond scum.
westsideblues1
<p>I love how mike corners jack ass!! </p><p>with no way out!!! lmffo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!</p><p>yes, mikes English is way better then jack ass !
westsideblues1










http://lana-voreskova.blogspot.com/2012_06_01_archive.htmlse
westsideblues1
BELOW IS LANAVOR22 BLOG DEPICTING HER SELF AS A DOM .TRAINING MEN TO BE SUBMISSIVE TO WOMEN


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makes no sense ! she is bashing women left and right but at the same time she has a web site making men into submissive weaklings!

who knows she may be a gay guy maybe?
and jack ass is praising her/him!!! lol

hey jack ass she may turn ur ass into a submissive weakling !!1 you better watch out!!!

you might end up kissing up to women!
westsideblues1
<p class="first">I am a Dominant Woman.</p><p>
I am a 32 year old Russian woman living in Ireland. I have been in a wonderful female led relationship with an Irishman for the last eight years. It is not a BSDM relationship. My dominance over him is our lifestyle choice, not simply a bedroom game. I am not interested in inflicting pain on someone I love. For me, pain and sex do not mix.</p><p>
First of all let me make one thing clear. My husband is strong, tough, assertive, highly educated and successful. He is the first to stand up if there is danger. He is a man that other men defer to and admire. He is in no way a weak man. I could not be with a weakling. I need a strong shoulder sometimes like everyone else.</p><p>
Secondly I am also assertive and confident but not aggressive or abusive. Most people would probably describe me as quiet but self-assured. Aggression and dominance are two different things and people often confuse them. Aggressive women are often those who lack self-confidence and try to compensate for that by being obnoxious. A truly dominant woman has no need of aggression.</p><p>
My husband and I met, dated and fell in love in the usual way. My dominance over him was introduced about a year after we first moved in together. I had been in relationships before but they had left me feeling unfulfilled. I craved submission from my man. I wanted to be obeyed and worshipped. One day I asked him for a foot rub. I suppose this happens in many “normal” relationships. He complied and began to massage my feet. At one point he made some cheeky remark and I jokingly replied – “be careful or I will make you lick my feet”- I was testing the boundaries here and his response was music to my ears. He became very serious and said, - “I would love to lick your feet.” Ten minutes later he was kneeling in front of me and calling me Mistress. </p><p>
Over the next few days we talked openly about what we both wanted. I explained to him that I had a deep need to be obeyed and to be in control. He told me that he had always craved dominance by a woman and had played the dominant male role only because he believed it was what women expected of him. It was like a massive weight had been lifted off our shoulders.</p><p>
The first thing we introduced was what I call my Venus Medallion. It is a large bronze medallion with a Greek style etching of a naked woman. Whenever I wear this medallion then I am Mistress Lana. He must kneel if I walk into a room and remain kneeling until I give him instructions. He must obey my commands without question and he must never speak without permission.</p><p>
When I am not wearing the medallion our relationship is more equal. He is not required to kneel or call me Mistress. He can answer back and he has the right to disagree with me. We often have long intellectual debates about various issues and I respect his intelligence. However he is still expected to be obedient. </p><p>I wrote up some rules and boundaries for my dominance which are as follows.</p><p>
Normal day to day –</p><p>
01. You will treat me with respect at all times but you will also be treated with respect.</p><p>02. You will listen to my opinions as I will respect yours but you will always defer to my decisions.</p><p>
03. You will serve me and obey me as required.</p><p>
04. You will carry out any tasks that I require of you.</p><p>
05. You will not watch pornography or masturbate ever. Your sexual pleasure is at my discretion and you will have no other sexual outlet.</p><p>
06. You will always give me the administrator password for you computer and you will never delete the history files.</p><p>
When I am wearing the medallion -</p><p>
01. You will address me as Mistress.</p><p>
02. You will kneel if I enter the room and await instructions.</p><p>
03. You will speak only when spoken to.</p><p>
04. If you wish to say something you will first ask permission to speak</p><p>
05. You will do exactly what you are told without hesitation or question.</p><p>
06. You will accept any punishment you are subjected to.</p><p>When in public or in company –</p><p>
01. You will never be humiliated or obviously dominated but you are still expected to defer to my wishes and show me respect at all times.</p><p>
Training</p><p>I decided that basic training would last four weeks and I wore the medallion around the clock for training purposes. Training mostly involved ordering him about, making him worship at my feet and some mild humiliation. I suppose it was a bit like military training in some respects; making him do endless pointless tasks just to reinforce his obedience. I would make him go and fetch an object from the garden shed and then tell him to bring back again. I would make him do this maybe twenty times in a row until he was just obeying me automatically. During training he was not allowed to speak, eat or go to the toilet without my permission. He was not allowed any sexual gratification. By the end of the four weeks, he had become completely submissive and would obey me without hesitation or question.</p><p>
I was looking forward to the end of training myself because I missed talking and cuddling with my man. I don’t want to be wearing the medallion all the time. At the end of the four weeks I made him kneel and swear an oath of obedience to me.</p><p>
Punishment</p><p>Sometimes it is necessary to impose punishment upon my husband. There are two reasons for this. Firstly the punishment is used to discourage behavior that displeases me. Secondly punishment reinforces my dominance and reminds my husband who is in control. Punishments are not a sex game and he does not enjoy them. They would be pointless if he did.</p><p>
Punishments are usually mild. I will make him kneel for an hour in the corner, or carry out some repetitive pointless task. Of course I will deny him any sexual pleasure but then that’s something that most “normal” women do anyway. The only time I ever inflict pain on him is when he has committed a serious act of disobedience. Then he will be ordered to strip naked and get on all floors on the floor. He will be lashed on his bottom with my riding crop until I am satisfied that he has learnt his lesson. Again this is not a sex game. This is painful for him and he does not enjoy it in any way. He does everything he can to avoid being subjected to this. I have only whipped him four times in the eight years we have been together, but it’s something he knows I will do again if I feel the need. He once told me that he hated being whipped but he loved the fact that I had the power to do it if I wanted.</p><p>
I believe a dominant woman must be very careful about punishing her man. He should always understand why he is being punished. He wants to serve his Mistress but he doesn’t want to live with a sadist. You should punish your man only when he deserves it and never just because you had a bad day.</p><p>
Sex</p><p>As I have already said, my domination of my husband is not primarily about sex. However sex is the glue that holds a relationship together and his complete obedience to me also extends to the bedroom. I have heard people say that a dominant woman should not allow her man to cum or should force him to masturbate. I think this is nonsense. I think that women who espouse this are man-haters or they are just repressed and terrified of a penis. </p><p>
I love my man. I love his body, and I like to pleasure his penis. I do use orgasm denial sometimes just to reinforce my authority, but usually I allow him to cum during sex. I was very sexually experienced before we met and he had little experience. This made it much easier to train him how to please me. I have trained him well and he will spend hours to give me pleasure in whatever way I require. So although I am in control, I do believe that sex is more about giving that taking and I like giving to my man. I also know his fetishes and I will incorporate them into our sex sometimes as a treat if I think he deserves it.</p><p>
I have a high sex-drive and I occasionally have sex with other men provided they are also submissive. I allow my husband to watch at his request and he enjoys it. I never cheat on him behind his back. I would not do anything to hurt him and if he asked me not to have sex with other men, then I would consider it.</p><p>
As for masturbation. I would never allow him to masturbate. He is completely forbidden from pleasing himself in any way. He must always depend on me for any sexual release. I was away for work recently and he called me to ask me permission to masturbate. I refused to give it. He will always remain frustrated until I decide to release him and he must be conditioned to understand that sexual gratification is a gift that only I can bestow.</p><p>
My Advice</p><p>So as I said our relationship is built on love, respect and communication like any relationship should be. My dominance is only one aspect of it. I know that my husband loves me and loves to serve me. I think that’s how it should be. I also love and respect him and appreciate his need to serve. Women have always been dominant in relationships in many ways. It’s just that most women don’t realize it. Look at any couple in a restaurant and see how he defers to her and tries to please her. It’s quite normal for a man to try to do anything to please his woman. Men in “normal” relationships are constantly offering submission to their women. All the woman has to do is find the confidence to accept that offer. There is nothing better than being in a relationship with a man who will love, respect, serve and obey.</p><p>
A lot of people would read this and think – “Oh no, all relationships should be equal”….. This is politically correct nonsense. If you think you believe that then you are being dishonest with yourself. I know a lot of couples and I know of none that have an equal relationship. There is always one dominant partner even if it is not usually acknowledged. It is perfectly natural and you should not try to deny a rule of nature just because you don’t like it.</p><p>
I am not any kind of expert and I can only speak from what I have experienced and observed. My advice to men would be to take it slowly. Many women would be horrified to hear that their partners want to be dominated by them. Remember that women and men have been conditioned by society to accept that any form of relationship that is not “normal” according society, is therefore in some way perverted. You ask a woman to be dominant straight out and she immediately conjures up images of a leather-clad dominatrix torturing a man in a dungeon.</p><p>
To a man I would say this: Your partner is already dominant in many respects. Many woman are naturally dominant and just don’t know it. Write a list of the ways in which your woman is dominant and then try to expand upon it. Coax her out of her shell and encourage her dominant side. Defer to her in arguments even when you know she is wrong. Do chores for her. She is sitting at home and suggests a coffee; you get to the kitchen first and make it for her. Get up before her in the morning and make her breakfast. Always do anything she asks you to do without question. Try giving her a foot rub. Now try kissing her foot. See how she reacts. If she reacts well, then gradually make worshiping her feet a regular thing. In the bedroom, start asking her what she would like you to do to please her. Ask her permission before you climax. Do not suggest any kind of bondage or discipline early on. If that is something you want you can ask for it later when she has become comfortable with her superior position. Gradually cede power to her in subtle ways. The more you submit, the more she will begin to dominate openly. Finally you will both be confidant enough to discuss the parameters of your relationship honestly. It sometimes takes time to break down taboos that are thousands of years old, but it’s worth it in the end. You will finally be living with the dominant woman of your dreams.</p><p>
Thanks for reading.</p><p>
Lana.</p>
westsideblues1
http://lana-voreskova.blogspot.com/2012/06/how-to-embrace-female-superiority-my.html

yea she/he is an advocate of female superiority!! lol
Vivagalore
Mike what does Jack think about Paul Elam being divorced like 4 times and the failure of AVfM to pay the taxes they owe ?
bluelady1021
As usual, when you point out how they aren't the pillars of the earth JB just ignores it and clings to his beliefs that losers like Paul Elam are demigods when they are actually no more than the equivalent of demagogues.
westsideblues1
Lana also had a site to teach men to be submissive. she may of took that web site down?
westsideblues1
here is her real name..> Svetlana Voronkova
westsideblues1
http://www.experienceproject.com/stories/Am-Proud-To-Be-A-Feminist/2304862
westsideblues1
above are comments from a story,

where the writer of the story said, she took down Lana's comments!

 
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