I Am An Mra

Men and women (or LGBTs) being together is like the yin and the yang uniting. When we are not in a relationship we are usually not complete or balanced.
But before people get married they need to wait for their true soul mate to appear instead of just marrying someone they think they are in love with and can be committed to because they feel temporary passion and infatuation for them. When you find your true soul mate you will be comfortable with them and your life will be easy. Marriage won't be hard work and a chore, and you will want to please them and make them happy, and they will want to do the same for you (its not blowing smoke up someone's ass. Its reality).

With a true soul mate life will never be hell if you fail to go out of your way to do or say things to please your spouse and make their life happy and comfortable. It will come very naturally. A happy wife does mean a happy life, just as much as a happy husband means a happy life. If either spouse is unhappy their life together is not going to be joyful and happy. If my husband is unhappy, sad, upset, frustrated, etc. because of something that happened at work or in our lives (like one of our pets dying, an unforeseeable problem with our house or cars that unexpectedly ends up costing us a lot of money, or things of that nature it can cause one of us, or both of us, to be unhappy, sad, frustrated, etc., and life won't be wonderful for either one of us during that period of time. When that kind of thing happens we will do all we can to make the one we love feel less bad and bring joy and contentment back into our lives. We won't just ignore them and expect them to care for themselves. That's selfish. Its not hard work or a chore either. It is something we enjoy doing, and as I mentioned above, it comes naturally. Good people like to help other people who are having difficulties or are unhappy for some reason. Selfish, self-centered people often don't give a shit about other people, and don't want to put any energy into helping their spouse in any way they possibly can (including saying and doing what they want to help fix things and make them better for them). They just focus all their time and attention primarily on themselves. I feel sorry for women and men who are married to that kind of person.
People also need to be honest about themselves with their potential spouse. If my ex husband had done so I never would have married him. He hid his true self as long as he could, but eventually it had to come out. That is when our marriage started too unravel.
I am glad you appreciate your wife JB. I just hope she feels the same way about you.
I don't see fewer and fewer men marrying. Some of them fall for the negative nonsense that MRAs constantly spew out. Then when they are old and alone they will probably regret buying into the bullshit and thinking they would have a happier and more fulfilling life if they never got married.