I Am An Mra

Good question. Too personal for me to answer though. Some of us like to keep things hidden on the internet. A few people on EP know the answer to that one, but it's not relevant to my views one way or the other.

True. Your views and opinions are your own. It's none of my business. But, if that's the opinion and views of an MRA member, who are we to say that he's incorrect in that view. After all, we are open minded, are we not.
And, if MRA's insist on not getting married and having kids, wouldn't that be a advocate against MRA's dream come true? They don't reproduce and eventually the movement may dwindle?
Problem solved. Probably not but playing the devil's advocate can be quite fun😉

That was beautifully written out and SO agree with you. I know I came across as a dick to Mike but he kinda knows me.
You are absolutely right about the kids! I have a daughter whom I love very much and I'm not married to her mom. To be spiteful to a child, because of a self serving attitude is incomprehensible? I hate the term "man up". How about "Human Up?" These men whose point of views on children are less men and more animal. Crocodile males will eat their offspring. Because, THEY'RE EASY PICKINGS!
Sometimes Mike's posts seem one sided that I'm not sure (and I say again, Im not sure [I cannot look into his heart]) if we know the whole story of the men and there thoughts. I've been married and it was not a superb one. My daughter is the glorious result of a dissolved relationship. If he is married, he'd knows that it's not a 50/50 deal. It's a 100/100 ratio. And, if you give 100 and the other gives 50, you will feel slighted. But I'm a better person today than I was 11 years ago.

lowrider i worry that he shares his hate filled beliefs with his wife and child. Can you imagine that that would do to both of them? Children Google their parents. Can you imagine the horror that could await a child coming upon his words online. What if her friends were to come upon them? The very idea is terrifying.

I am glad you take responsibility InMemory. JB actually continuously tries to claim that men have no reproductive rights and that men who end up with children they don't want have often been tricked by women who claimed they were on birth control when they weren't; or provided hole poked condoms for the man to wear; or took the condom after the man took it off and removed the sperm and then put it in herself to become pregnant.
I pointed out to him that if a man truly does not want to impregnate a woman he should either refuse to have sex with her or take measures into his own hands to keep her from getting pregnant. Even if the woman claims she is on birth control the man should wear a good, strong, appropriate fitting, spermicide contained, condom that he has brought with him, and if he fears the woman my remove his sperm from the condom and use it to try to impregnate herself, he should take it with him after they finish having sex. Its that simple.
I also pointed out that it is extremely rare that a woman would actually want to have a baby with a man who did not want to be with her and have a relationship with her, and who did not want her to have a baby. Being pregnant, giving birth, and having to care for a child, and getting child support isn't going to make the woman's life easier or make her rich (unless the man is a billionaire and even then being pregnant, giving birth, and caring for a child by yourself is going to be very hard work). Most women don't want to end up in that kind of predicament. Women who end up pregnant without wanting it to happen often have it happen because they forgot to correctly use their birth control, and the man they had sex with didn't use any at all. If the men had been responsible and had used accurate, appropriate condoms the chances that the woman they had sex with would become pregnant would become next to none.

With almost any action We do in life there is some amount of responsability for it.A man Who can not accept this,should lock himself up in his home and never venture outside.