@Captainjackass Like I said, I have never, even as a kid felt my family was there. Just stones and a place to reflect. I won't be buried there. My ashes will be spread out and there won't be a stone.

@Coppercoil I am a sap when it comes to family and history. The sad part, and I am sure I said it before, is all the folks markers that go untended or unvisited. One spring I had to tell my wife to stop as she moved on to stones that hadn't seen a brush in many years..."where do you stop?" I asked, we could spend weeks.

Putting the greenhouse back up this year for flowers because I doubt I will be able to buy them in time for decoration day.