And I don't know how to get it back.

Being a mom and trying to keep or find your own identity, is not something that comes easy for most women (from my experience and conversations with other moms). Especially new or young mothers. There is a lot guilt and stigma that surrounds being a mother while also trying to be your own person. Being a mother is equally the hardest and best job I have ever had. I can honestly say that I would never trade it for anything. BUT, there have been many tears shed and much internal struggle and soul searching. There are parts of me that have changed entirely since becoming a mom, and there are parts of me that I’ve since discovered, that I never even knew existed. I can’t tell you how to think or feel, all I can do is to say that you are not alone, and to offer you a little advice.
Take time for you. I know that’s not easy, and sometimes it’s just impossible, but when the opportunity comes for even an hour alone and away from your kids, take it. Find an old hobby or a new passion, and put your whole self into it. It is OKAY to not think about your children for a little bit. That doesn’t make you selfish, it doesn’t make you a bad person, and it certainly doesn’t make you a bad mother. In fact, it will make you feel more complete, and your kids/family will pick up on that positive change in you.

And by the way, if being a mother is the reason someone doesn’t find you sexy, then you’re better off without their dumb ass. ;)

Yep, yep. It'll come back. You're not just a mum

Being a mother is unsexual? What are you... a dude?

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Happy to help