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I Need Closure

No you dont need closure. People live in an illusion that closure will help them move on. It does not. It is nonsense. Closure does not change the outcome of the situation. It is the "situation" breakup, death whatever that causes the pain and having closure is not going to change that .

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softspokenman · M

Empathy is the ability to feel another persons pain. Some people experience bitterness when they grieve over the loss of someone they love. We never get over it. Over time we learn to live with the pain and it becomes less overwhelming, most of the time, and we begin to function again. But we never get over it. *We never forget them.

CheerfullyCurious · 46-50, F

@softspokenman i agree 100% . It is really hard to loose someone. Sorry for your loss. In this post i just wanted to differentiate between "closure" and loss/pain.
The pain go on even when closure is found. People hold on and dont move on because they think closure will make the pain go away but it does not.