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I Need Closure

No you dont need closure. People live in an illusion that closure will help them move on. It does not. It is nonsense. Closure does not change the outcome of the situation. It is the "situation" breakup, death whatever that causes the pain and having closure is not going to change that .

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questionWeaver

Interesting .... makes sense

CheerfullyCurious · 46-50, F

People get obsessed about the "closure" idea. They tell themself only if i can have closure then i will feel better but what is the point? It keeps you from moving forward. It stagnates you - having closure is not going to bring someone back to you. I think the illusion is : "if i understand it i can fix it" , but that is not always the case. The loss and the pain will still be there even when you understand it. @questionWeaver

allsfinebime2 · M

@CheerfullyCurious Exactly

questionWeaver

@CheerfullyCurious makes sense ...