Why do we care for/about those who hurt us the most?

it usually stems from our parents hurting us as children. And then we seek out others that remind us of those unhealed wounds. It's an opportunity to heal. Sadly, many of us just keep picking the same type of person.

Because some of us feel a deep loyalty towards them...
If that makes sense.

I don't care about those that hurt me most 😕

I ask myself the same thing.