Remove Ads Get VIP

Personal, Thoughts & Feelings

Notifications: · Newest First
Only logged in members can view the full post and comments.
Join Similar Worlds today »
Offense in a sensitive world?
Do you get offended when you are constantly called a victim, with a victim mentality when you are trying so hard to thrive? And if not, how do you combat it?
41-45, F
+ 0 7 replies 7 views Dec 3, 2019 |
SW User
I hate being called the victim
kodiac · 18-21, M
Iamyourdaddy · 22-25, M
Victim and entitlement are the same thing. Exact opposite on the outside but the same selfish creamy core on the inside.

1) I am special so fuck you I need special treatment.

2) I am oppressed so fuck you I need special treatment.
kodiac · 18-21, M
[@854020,brokenswordsandshatteredshield] If i was a victim i'd probably tell you to fuck off ,but since i'm not it's all good .
Iamyourdaddy · 22-25, M
[@665475,kodiac] hahahaha
Abstraction · 56-60, M
Objectively assess whether you have a victim mentality, then once you know that, it doesn't matter what anyone else says.
It's ok to have emotions and to struggle. That doesn't make anyone a victim. It makes you human. It's learned helplessness you have to avoid.

[i]The belief systems of the person with a victim identity fall along these lines:
Life is really, really hard.
Don't get up, you'll just get kicked back down again.
Beware, always beware of trickery; it's around every corner.
You can't trust anyone.
I can't.
You just don't understand how hard it is for me.
Everyone is always picking on me.
"They" are always bigger, badder and smarter than me.[/i]
Justmerae · 51-55, F
Not sure who would say that to a person or why?

I'd get away from the person shaming me.
Remind myself how far I come.
Possibly find at least one supportive person.

Post Comment  
24259 people following
Personal, Thoughts & Feelings
Personal Stories, Advice, and Support
New Post
Updated: 29 secs ago
Content Rating: Non-Adult
Group Members Report Group