Is it just me...

Amen!

I know one who blocked me because i took 3 hours to reply. God forbid you sleep never mind having a life.

Not usually unless we’re in a proper conversation flow and the just disappear for a few days

I always try to treat people nice because that is the way I like to be treated. If you can reply only once a week that's cool cause sometimes I can't respond often

Yes. It happens, for many crave for connection in here and don't understand that the line can snap or some emergency has cropped up for the other .. which they assume as the other ignoring or abandoning or chatting with someone else... especially when they are awaiting response for a crucial question or when the chat is going fast ..

I usually avoid chat for that reason, and use pm or email, and delay the response by taking time to reply and make them read more .. The problem is always with one liners & two liners .. and tactically I end the note with a "P.s. I am getting offline for a while, be back later" ..

Yes... sadly that's true. Which is disrespectful, since after all - everyone has a real life on here... and the right to make choices over their own time.

Seems people forget things and lessons. We can be in a conversation, you and I, but I don't know if you're sitting at a computer or on the go with your smartphone in hand. I don't know what's exactly going on with the other person in the exact moment. And things are always changing. So even if I knew what was going on for a fleeting moment, that could suddenly and without warning change. It's another great thing about being on here is that conversations can be picked up at the next convenient time.

I know what you mean. After posting the quote, "One who is all wrapped up in himself, makes a small package," to which one heartless dude responded, would you please stop mentioning 'small package'?" Hear I never mentioned the subject at all and never repeated it and he wants me to STOP mentioning it.
Go figure where that came from. My guess is a total ignorance of people or any good feelings or lack of a sense of humor.
What do you think?

I've never noticed that.
It kinda loses momentum for me but not to the extent that I get mad.

i dont mind late comments just as long as i get some response

There are so many reasons you might not shot a reply right back. Plus we have to contend (& this is frequent in the spanking groups) with the trollack who reads a post but carefully ignores the part that has already answered their straight-brain-wave objection that is only meant to make an already guilt-ridden mum feel worse.

We have lives outside of sw.

people tend to forget that most of us actually have a real life outside of SW.. shit comes up unexpectedly and we do disappear and come back hrs or days later. that is real life at its finest.. :) ps. love to spanking av ;)

No.... I'm not a rude person at least I try not to be if you don't answer right away I understand you have a life outside this site.... Actually I would suggest that you spend more time with your family... Than this place...

I commented before. I got rude comments just today because i commented on a post before commenting on theirs. Wow

As far as comments/posts go not really but I have noticed some get upset if you reply pretty late or don’t reply to their private messages.

I understand why but I’ve been on both sides of the equation. But you’re right. They shouldn’t be frustrated. You have no obligation to them.

You did nothing wrong. This is what messaging about; to leave a message and reply when you have time. No one owns the other's mind and time.

It does not express intelligence, or tolerance of others, by being angry or rude to someone you wish to exchange chat with.
Better off without them

I know, I've had the same issue. And I'm always respectful of other people's time. I know everyone is busy with their own stuff.

People take themselves and this site way too seriously. They judt feel important. Or they're weird and needy

im happy to chat for a minute or all night. I tend to disappear too for a while.

Yes they do. Makes ya wonder what do they have to do all day but be on here...lol

Some people have no concept of life, this is all they have.

Unfortunately some people here don’t seem to have a life beyond SW

Some do. Most don't. ignore the bad seeds!

I know. I've had exactly the same experience.

Just be yourself.. if they don't like it so be it...

For sure ...this site is like that ..take what u get .

They can get hateful.

I love it when you are here also,

I couldn't agree more.

D more you know

THIS POST HAS MADE ME CROSS !!!! HOW DARE YOU SAY IM ANGRY !!!!!!!