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Things aren't going so well for me right now, you know?

Not mentally, at least. Why can't I ever be wanted? 😭
error478904 · 26-30, T
I know you’re going through a hard time. Why don’t you work on yourself ? I don’t know if you believe in the law of attraction, it’s the theory that your positive thoughts have a good impact on your life. Of course, it comes with action.

Believe you are worth being wanted, act/work on yourself (it could be practicing a sport for example) and eventually you will let others want you.
error478904 · 26-30, T
@SW-User You said “i don’t feel wanted” so you lack of confidence. That’s what you should change exactly.

And yes it’s a theory that has been proved by many and positive thoughts never harmed anyone.
It’s the same as karma, now it’s up to you if you believe it or not.

I think as individuals we should ALWAYS seek into being a better version of ourselves. I am not saying “change” but “evolve”

If you can’t take an advice that could be a good use for you, don’t complain bro.
SW-User
@error478904 OK, yes, I lack confidence. Depression does that to people.

There are two points that need to be addressed here:
1) your theory has been proven about as much as the existence of God. While yes, positive thoughts don't hurt (to say they "never harmed anyone" is a different issue), the key is having and maintaining motivation in achieving a set goal. The thoughts themselves don't really do anything beyond providing inspiration. It is not the same as just thinking about things and then things getting better as a result. That is called wishing.
2) Thinking positively and having things change for you is not the same as karma. Karma effectively involves doing something good (usually for others) and having kind things reciprocated (usually by others), or negative things being done. While its dressed in mysticism, it's basically a cycle of being good to others and others being good to you. It is NOT similar to thinking about things being good and having them change around you.

Evolution is a form of change.

I'm not complaining, I'm genuinely flabbergasted that people actually exist who believe in the nonsense you've been spouting.
error478904 · 26-30, T
1) Positive thoughts lead to motivation incase you don’t know.
The thoughts themselves lead you to actions THAT will make a change. I’ve never once said that just being positive was enough.

2) Karma is litteraly about vibes.
The same thing i’ve been talking about: Good vibes
It’s slightly different, true. But the process is the same.


Why would we want you if you don’t want yourself?
You don’t want to change ? FINE BUDDY Stay fat, depressed and unwanted, you’ll succeed at life like that. No worries.
SW-User
Sorry, man. You’re a good dude.
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