Have you ever prayed, wished, asked for something so bad, only to regret it, when it was granted?

Yep, I've learned to pray, wish, and ask for strength to get through an experience where I'm wanting feeling or like I'm needing something/someone.

Instead of looking for reconciliation or reconnection I seek closure and acceptance to change / letting go.

Yes. Now I say be careful what you pray for... That's why I mostly don't ask anything in particular anymore...It's because God knows us better then we know ourselves, so sometimes we don't know what we are doing asking for things...or PEOPLE

no genie in a jar works for me. Lol. Care to expand ?

Goals and tunnel vision can be a vicious cycle.

I'm hoping mine isn't granted, bc i don't want to regret it