Comet27 · 31-35, M
To me, it's about having compatible 'vibes' with the other person.. like you just know you can be at ease with the person without having to force anything.. And things come out automatically, words flow out easily, moments of silence are no longer awkward.. and you just feel good.. like you said, being accepted. It's mutual acceptance.
sleepyhead · 46-50, M
It sounds like you're talking about "comfortableness" not chemistry. I thought "chemistry" between people was when they spark off each other in a way that doesn't happen with most other people you meet?

SW-User
@sleepyhead I don't get that "comfortableness" with most people. That's why I was wondering about other people's interpretations of chemistry.
sleepyhead · 46-50, M
Cool. For me chemistry between people usually implies a connection that makes both people work extremely well together. Whether that's professionally, personally, sexually, etc @SW-User

SW-User
Most excellently stated. I feel the same way as you do, and seek that chemistry like you have found at the office. I would love that chemistry at home and in my love life with a woman where everything is open and shared!
flipper1966 · M
I believe in chemistry between test tubes.

SW-User
@flipper1966 and that spark of the Bunsen burner...
flipper1966 · M
@SW-User Ah, yes!