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I Believe In Chemistry Between People

What does chemistry between people really mean? My interpretation of it really just means that I feel comfortable about being open and myself. It's very rare that I don't have to dial my personality down - with most people I'm just a watered down version of myself, because it turns people off.

I just realised that there are two people in my office that I completely feel comfortable with. And it makes me happy because that is so rare for me. The feeling of sticking out like a sore thumb is more familiar than anything.

I think chemistry for me means that I can be myself, and tell them things I don't usually tell anyone else. Sometimes I can even overshare because I get too comfortable. But the beauty of these people is that I know that they don't judge... maybe that's all I really need for chemistry. To know that I am accepted as I am.
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Comet27 · 26-30, M
To me, it's about having compatible 'vibes' with the other person.. like you just know you can be at ease with the person without having to force anything.. And things come out automatically, words flow out easily, moments of silence are no longer awkward.. and you just feel good.. like you said, being accepted. It's mutual acceptance.