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I Am Confused About My Feelings

Hello everyone m 30 yrs a single working woman.Simple living simple girl.Now a days m not interested to do anything.In my office one of my colleague always saying about her age....she said m 26 now but still unmarried...etc etc.After her talk I always think about my self m 30 n still single.May be I m looking younger than my age but true thing is m 30.Many of my friends are now married they have kids.I don't want to meet with them.Last week after Church one of my school mate met with me n she said still u r single.See I have a baby n a lovely husband.I don't know why she said...I think she compared me n her life.When I think about all of this I really feel very sad.N sometimes I feel confused ...n I question to my self what I want from my life.
Jlhzfromep · M
Do not do something like marriage just because others think you should. Be happy with yourself and enjoy life. If you fall in love then think about marriage
Wishfulsoul · 41-45, F
You should try not to compare yourself to others, or let others make you feel this way. Its your life not there's focus on what's important to you. Please don't worry about your age 30 is young. I wish I was 30 again. I'm single and I'd rather be this way than be with someone if my hearts not in it.
If you want to find a relationship there are plenty of ways of going about it in today's society, you just have to be proactive in doing it
When the things that you do aren't within the social norm, it's confusing to them, so they then covey that confusion to you.
As long as you know what you're doing and don't get pressured to do something you don't want just because everybody else around you is doing, you don't need to feel confused.
english · 56-60, M
It is your life ,and your choices ,please dont let so called happy couples suck you into a make believe world which they all live in. If its meant to be .............blah blah blah
SW-User
I can feel this. My few friends are now married so we don't talk much. And people keep asking me when are you getting married etc. So I feel like skipping people at times.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
I can understand how confusing it might feel. I'm 25 and my father called me a spinster the other day. 😐 It made me feel very weird.
SW-User
I'm sorry to hear... you shouldn't have to go through that.
Ozdharma · 61-69, M
You are still young no need to rush those things
Tukudo · 41-45, M
firefall · 61-69, M
Did you come to any conclusions, what you want from your life?

 
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