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There's a girl in your husband's bed, it makes you feel bad

you feel sick, can't focus on anything anymore, don't feel like eating or going for work. Everything seems meaningless. What would you do? Tell him to forget her, you give him another chance or give up on him?
ginnyfromtheblock · 26-30, F Best Comment
i want to think i would be angry and vengeful but i think i would just collapse if i’m being honest. i assume his conscience would make him leave her after getting caught. i don’t think cheating is the worst thing someone can do. maybe i’d give him another chance
ginnyfromtheblock · 26-30, F
@SooperSarah i suppose it could be if it involved gaslighting or manipulation, but not legally.

but lol every time i come back to this comment i look down and see my bf has posted literally just the word “divorce” so i guess that could be my answer too lmao.

i would never judge someone who ended a relationship over infidelity, that’s a huge violation. i just don’t think i could
@ginnyfromtheblock to me cheating isn't just an "oops." There's a lot of planning and effort put into hurting someone as long as they can without getting caught. Every time they see that other person they're choosing hurt someone that loves them. I just don't understand how that's forgivable. Clearly you're a better person than I am 🤗
ginnyfromtheblock · 26-30, F
@SooperSarah lol no no no. i mean i see what you’re saying for sure, it’s definitely not an accident. my story is long but suffice it to say your points are extremely valid!

DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
Let it go and live my life. I give my partners "permission" to explore their attraction to other people anyway.
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@mysteryespresso Not me im no 3 rd wheel i left my fiancer when he would nto step up and defend me and allways with some one else and dope so no ur with me 100% or 0
@MonaLisa86 preach it gurl
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pentacorn · F
it would depend on what other problems there are in the relationship, but if i felt bad enough, i'd give up. some people say automatic breakup, but i'm not really the jealous type. people always know they're free to walk, if they want.
Torch the house and walk away
SinlessOnslaught · 26-30, M
Idk, I suck at relationships. But I hope this question is hypothetical.
@SinlessOnslaught it really is true for a friend.
SinlessOnslaught · 26-30, M
@mysteryespresso Wow. I'm sorry. It sounds like it effected them a lot.
DDonde · 31-35, M

 
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