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How do you give hope to someone with no hope when you struggle to find hope for yourself?

Effloresce · 26-30, F
I actually find it easier to give hope to others even when I’m feeling hopeless. I don’t want them to feel how I feel
gmatthewb · 51-55, M
@Effloresce I feel similar, just a challenge some times.
curiosi · 61-69, F
You remind yourself and them that so far you both have survived 100% of your worst days and you will survive this as well. Not only that you will come through stronger.
SW-User
Mmm I just tell them everything sucks yes but there are good things and that we can make it day by day
Dusty101 · F
You kinda let them know what you just said!
They could have the answer!
You may never know unless you air it to them!
Brilliant question BTW! ❓🎉
gmatthewb · 51-55, M
@Dusty101 I don't want to tell her how hard this is on me, she doesn't need to know that. But thank you.
Dusty101 · F
@gmatthewb im so sorry.. I didn't know you were talking about your personal situation!
I thought you were talking about a useless tosser!
I'm sorry matt!
😢😢
gmatthewb · 51-55, M
@Dusty101 Nothing to be sorry for at all, it's okay.
SoFine · 46-50, F
To take away pain, if only we could.

I do use music healing, music meditation to listen to. On YouTube are many to use. Try Numeditation..

Then to be with nature, water, tress, birds. ..get them if you can, to be outside with nature.
When I am feeling hopeless I can't help others. I have to withdraw for a while until I feel better. Yes I get depressed and deeply sometimes for months at a time. Those are the times I need my space.
abooklover · 56-60, F
I find it far easier to provide hope and support to other people than myself. Even when I'm struggling, I can see light for them. Cruel irony I suppose.
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NeloAngelo · 26-30, M
Hope or not you have to keep going. find some reason no matter how insignificant.
gmatthewb · 51-55, M
@NeloAngelo That's what I'm trying to do.
Peaches · F
Sometimes just being there is good enough, 😔 we don't always need to say anything. God bless you both.✨🙏🏼🌟
I find it better to give others hope than to feel it myself but i know theres always hope
There’s always hope..
gmatthewb · 51-55, M
@TheOneyouwerewarnedabout I know, but it is a struggle to find most times.
pentacorn · F
just be consistent and kind.

 
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