Insults! We all get them

I think it’s all about from whom it is coming and how often? Like, if it is a random person. Than be big and never respond neither get intimidated. If it is due to some sort of jealously. Don’t respond and keep a safe distance. Or if someone is just having an emotional burst? Be big and let it go too.

But if it is from a person who is around you for most part or involved in the circle, you too are involved. Than not drawing a red line is huge mistake. I guess having a consistent personality with consistent attitude towards life, will make others be watchful and respectful towards you. In my case this is what helping me. Remember there will always be some one who will be goof so be watchful.

Depends on the person, that should I take them seriously. are they really worth taking seriously?

I analyze, self loath. I know my flaws, so they have to be creative to get my attention or I will probably ignore them

Im always open to analyzing my own behavior and how it has also effected any situation. If I'm wrong I own it. I will no longer own shit that isn't my fault.

Insults tell me more about the person making them than they do about myself.

I take insults as compliments.

i'm sure you can.