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What would you do if your significant other forgot your birthday?

To be clear, I'm not talking about gifts. I mean he just completely forgot. It feels weird to bring it up myself, but I was hoping he would have acknowledged it.
Fantabulous · 46-50, F
In the 20 years I have been with my husband he only once made an effort for my birthday and most times only wishes me when he has been up for about an hour 🙄

If it is your birthday today Happy Birthday :)
missit15 · 56-60, M
@Fantabulous Im sorry... that is terrible that he cant do anything for your Birthday... Maybe he needs a wake up call....
Fantabulous · 46-50, F
@missit15 well last birthday was better so maybe things can change eventually
missit15 · 56-60, M
@Fantabulous Awwww your positive attitude is showing... I hope your right and things continue to get better!
Highway · 46-50, M
he needs a wake up call.. cause you don't forget imp days let alone birthdays
NankerPhelge · 61-69, M
@Highway I didn't know imps got married. Lol :)
Highway · 46-50, M
@NankerPhelge important days.. btw, why do i keep reading your nickname in Arnold Schwarzenegger voice? lol
NankerPhelge · 61-69, M
@Highway I've no idea. You should be reading it in a Steppenwolf voice, because I made the name up from this:

[youtube=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LkpLo3FqAWw]

I changed the first half of it to give it a spanking theme. But the most important thing is that the name did not previously exist anywhere else on the Internet. I needed a unique, original name to register with EP because all my other online pseudonyms had been hijacked by other members who joined it before I did. When EP finished I used the same name on this site.
NankerPhelge · 61-69, M
I would deliberately "forget" hers. One of my old flames deserves to have her birthday forgotten anyway, because she lied to me about it on the day I met her.
NankerPhelge · 61-69, M
@Shayla I dumped her after I found out she'd lied about that. I haven't seen her again since then (it was in 2004). I don't care if I ever see her again or not.
Shayla · F
@NankerPhelge Trust is a huge component of a relationship. Seems like she intentionally sabotaged it.
NankerPhelge · 61-69, M
@Shayla Well, possibly. Some of my friends said she was off her head, and I think they were right. Lol :)
FreeSpirit1 · 51-55, F
Bite his dick.......not too hard. Lol
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FreeSpirit1 · 51-55, F
@SW-User lol,sorry
masterofyou · 70-79, M
😜I would be happy because I'm getting too old... I would like to forget it too...😫
Shayla · F
@masterofyou 😲
🤣
masterofyou · 70-79, M
@Shayla lol 🤗 Watch out young lady because you are young...😉
Shayla · F
BondGirl84 · 36-40, F
Pretty bad.... how long u been with this partner? If ur birthday falls within a short time after the beginning of dating i'd let it slide but longer than a year... yea pretty bad!
Sweet517 · 51-55, F
IMHO. That is pretty close to unforgiveable. I mean your spouses birthday just isn't something you have to memorize or write down.
I forced my guy to commit it to memory. I dont play those games. If its important to you your partner should remember it.
Peaceful · F
Do they normally forget stuff like that? Or just yours?
Shayla · F
@Peaceful I don't know...
Peaceful · F
@Shayla new relationship? They may have just forgotten. I'd playfully remind them before it got too close.
Teirdalin · 31-35
How does that even happen? xD
Maybe they never look at the calendar.
Shayla · F
@Teirdalin He actually asked me what day it was. I never know the date without checking, but I knew it yesterday.
SW-User
Be salty over it for a long, long time.
NankerPhelge · 61-69, M
@SW-User After that, would you be peppery about it? Lol :)
SW-User
Lol! 🤣
NankerPhelge · 61-69, M
@SW-User :)
AirForce687 · 36-40, M
I would spank him.
Shayla · F
@AirForce687 Lol! I'm not usually the spanker in my relationship. 😏
AirForce687 · 36-40, M
@Shayla My boyfriend gets put over my knee if he forgets things and gets to feel my belt.
SW-User
That's pretty bad I don't know how I would react
Sweet517 · 51-55, F
Mine forgot my birthday this year. Last year he remembered because all the Facebook texts were coming in and I mentioned it late the night before because they were already coming from other countries. He made up for it and promised he’d never forget again. Well, he did and I’ve pulled away emotionally.
missit15 · 56-60, M
Ug I think that is terrible. Next year let me know and you can tell him that Im taking you to lunch for your birthday. Maybe the idea that he may lose you unless he starts giving you the love and attention that you should be given.
ManicMortuary · 31-35, F
I'd be pretty hurt, but I'd hold out thinking he knee and was just planning something. If it starts getting late, bring it up.
NankerPhelge · 61-69, M
tbh i couldn't care less. it is a pointless and arbitrary date, more an excuse to get drunk than anything truly meaningful.
SW-User
Knock yo the side of the head with a frying pan. Guarantee they will never forget again ,unless you hit to hard causing brain damage lol
Autumn321 · 51-55, M
Just playfully remind him and of course it feels bad when someone misses special days.
A very Happy Birthday to you.
SW-User
That happened early in our marriage. I rubbed it in later that evening by mentioning her brother texted me “happy birthday.”
SW-User
I know these feelings, I mostly feel alone and sad. But I cant ask people to wish me.
Be sad coz I know their birthday and would be so excited for them 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
xmedleft · 51-55, M
She pretty much did, less than 2 months later I was no longer there.
I couldn't care less about my birthday.
Noway345 · M
I'm so sorry. That's horrible
MarineBob · 56-60, M
I always have

 
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