If you were cheated on, what would upset you the most about it? Would you be upset? Do you think that cheating is forgivable?

Forgivable sure...[b]Forgettable- HELL to the no[/b]

1 What would upset me most is that it happened...
Like damn, if you want to wander off with someone else- let me know so we can end this...and THEN get your groove on

2 100% I'd be angry.... Just cause- Do on to others as you'd like done on to you- and If I was COMPLETELY honest and loyal, I'd expect the same respect from someone who supposedly LOVED me

I would ask her if she doesn't want to be together anymore. I guess if there is no love then she should move on. Everyone makes mistakes so it's forgivable to some extent.

The fact that someone else could make her so hot but I could not

The game is rigged anyway.

Yes I would be upset, and I would be because I'd feel I was not good enough.

I resolved this by having an open relationship.But other guys have cheated on their partners by having sex with me.

Not feeling like i was enough was what hurt the most and yeah i forgave him but it still haunts me

It is different person to person. But I was cheated on and it broke my heart, I tried to make it work but it couldn't. The trust was gone and I finally could see how little they really respected me. Once you feel that person doesn't respect you and what you want together it can be near impossible to remain together.

The fact that I trusted wrong people and that, why I was so naive and lost sense of self respect.

It would take me awhile but they would be eventually forgiven

I tried to forgive but couldnt get passed it all trust was lost and we split up.

I'd destroy everything they love.

I have I was and I was willing

The dishonesty and breaking of trust would upset me most, because I don't trust easily. And yes, I'd be upset---I've never cheated on anyone---I've [b]left[/b] first. Whether or not I could forgive would depend on several variables, starting with the trust being reparable or not.