why am I attracted to the wrong people?

My Girls ,Like their Mom liked bad boys
the ones who seem to do what they want when they want always care free
but they never question how it is they live like that until its them sitting home taking care of kids or working their tales off for a man that contributes little ,,well except to the club he is always in spending their hard earned money chasing some other bimbo who falls for their crap .
I do actually know a few men like myself ,who work hard and play hard so they pay for the party for everyone else ,
The problem with that is the wife gets tired of the party every night in her home .why club when you have a free band ,no cover charge and all you favorite people are there ,and I liked feeling popular and loved so I had no problem with people over all the time ,but I get my woman also wanted time for her and I too ,(I neglected that part bad )
But turn your life around and care for your family only and you are boring .
So now I want a woman who is settled too ,tired of the club life ,who just wants a good man who is faithful to her ,and knows she has the freedom to do as she pleases ,but what she prefers is to be with me .
You have to admit ,until women (but I am not blaming it entirely on them)
until they hit 30 or a little older ,they don't have a clue what they want .
My girls after they turned 30 they looked for men like me ,about the family ,my youngest even brought her men to meet me first ,if I did not approve they were history
my wants for my kids are simple
Have a job ,you are taking on a family
you love kids ,my daughter has 2 ,their dad is dead
a form of transportation ,needed to get to work
They already have a home ,they can't live with me or his parents
they are good to their parents ,then they will understand family and not try to keep mine away from me (I am after all the one who is there for them no matter what and they one who provides for them all should they have a set back,I do not want a son in law who only knows me when he needs help )
And he is beyond the buddies at his home every night at his house playing video games and my Daughter is their maid
I have 3 good son in laws now ,,,,we have a pretty tight family ,not perfect ,,we have our moments ,but once Dad meets Mrs Right ,
it will be close enough to perfect ,for me
My Girls have outgrown the bad boys

because you suck

Sounds like a string of bad luck. I mean if they're keeping their evil a secret and you're not attracted to it.