Been talking to a guy i can't tell people about

We met online late December. I haven't seen what he looks like, but we're talking about meeting maybe next week (in public duh). We text all day and talk on the phone pretty often, and he's a really amazing person. Cares about me, open minded, checks in to see how I'm doing. Maybe its toxic of me but he worries about me and, yea I always make sure he knows I'm okay and whatever, but it feels kind of nice to feel so cared about?

Anyway. Hes a really amazing person with a big ol heart but there's... quite an age gap between us. I'm terrified to tell me friends and the like about him- I'm not ready for the judgment. And I feel shitty cause thats not fair to him either

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eyeno · M

Just saying my experience,

One I knew several years before we met, I'd say went pretty well. But cut-off as a friend, found out she had hidden agendas.

One lived not to far away, that went well too, but no chemistry.

Two, I cut-off before meeting, two many red flags.

Such as in daily life, you win some and lose some.

My advantage: I always try to keep aware of body language and subtle actions and [b]always meet on my turf, always![/b]

SinlessOnslaught · 26-30, M

Who gives a shit what people think?

Hoodski · 36-40, M

Seems a little odd that y’all have been talking since December and that you still don’t know what he looks like. I’d be careful very careful

TeamSkullGrunt · F

@Hoodski yeah it bothered me a little bit before but we talked about it and I understand why he can't send pics, there is reason for it

ViciDraco · 36-40, M

Love can be a tricky beast

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

What would the reason be that he can’t send pictures? He is married, not who he says he is, a spy? In this day and age there is no reason that you can’t sent a picture. You could video chat first too before you meet.

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