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This question is for men.

I've been on several dating sites, every man I talk to has to tell me they are very sexual... WTF, I'm gathering you want sex, but is there a time in life that you would be happy focussing on things other than sex. Or is sex the reason u live?
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questionWeaver · 56-60, M Best Comment
Do not believe those guys ... they are all talk
melissa001 · 51-55, F
[@6757,questionWeaver] really?
questionWeaver · 56-60, M
[@507791,melissa001] of course they are ... guys do not advertise, if they appeal to ladies cause simply, they do not need to advertise
questionWeaver · 56-60, M
[@507791,melissa001]

Thank you for best answer

mummy · 41-45, F
many normal men dont use such websites that much
melissa001 · 51-55, F
[@777936,mummy] so what do u consider "normal men"?
mummy · 41-45, F
[@507791,melissa001] everyone who are not telling others in internet that they are "very sexual"
DownTheStreet · 51-55, M
Mmm. Hard to say. But I would think many men are looking for an adventure partner for the next phase of their life, someone they can count on
melissa001 · 51-55, F
[@325552,DownTheStreet] u would think, but not true.
DownTheStreet · 51-55, M
[@507791,melissa001] yeah i guess
Mamapolo2016 · 61-69, F
I suspect it's either (or both) explaining why that's their main interest and forestalling a relationship where she's never in the mood.
I don't want to sound presumptive, but depending on the age of the men you're talking to it might be either to tell you that they're still functional in sexual activities, or they want to be clear that they expect you to be functional and interested in it. I doubt anyone [even males] over... 26 or so lives exclusively for sex. which isn't a challenge to try to prove me wrong, just my ... belief and hope.
Becksta · 36-40
A man's brain:-

Sex, sex, sex, sex, breakfast, sex, sex, sex, sex, lunch
Sex, sex, sex, sex, dinner,
Sex, sex, sex, sex, supper
Sex, sex, sex, sex, bedtime
Sssssssseeeeeeeeexxxxxxxxxx

(repeat)
longhairedrupali · 41-45, F
[@421598,Becksta] 🤣🤣🤣🤣
PerthSurfer · 46-50, M
I've never been on a dating site and while on the surface it seems like a strange thing to say, maybe they do it because they feel it's important in a new relationship for them?, and they may have come out of a sexless relationship and fear going back into another one? Me personally i wouldn't even mention it. I figure that if it's going to happen it will, but i'm not interested in rushing that kind of thing with just anyone.
Laughman · 41-45, M
I read a good quote regarding this:
"Men need sex to connect, whilst women need to connect to have sex."
Jackaloftheazuresand · 26-30, M
Sex is the first thing, it is our primary motivator since the age of divergence. Why do you think males are the ones to die after mating in several species, it's our purpose. There will always be more sex to be had while we are alive because we want the best chance of offspring survival
It might be the primary motivator for men but it’s not the primary motivator for woman. Women don’t typically want just sex. But if it is acceptable for men to sexualize women, why is it not okay for women to search for successful partners and it not be shallow?? [@383281,Jackaloftheazuresand]
PTCdresser57 · 61-69, M
By the time I got to 55 there was more important things
indyjoe · 51-55, M
They're most likely just blowing smoke, and if they aren't they are not there for dates or relationships...they're there to score. I admitted to my wife that I was a very sexual person up front but that was not the focus of our conversation. I was just giving her information to help in her decision to get involved with me, I wanted to be open an honest with her from the start.
FamilyStrictDad66 · 51-55, M
Right now yes would rather focus on my family and finding a partner who I can get along with for more than a few hours. lol
Fishing65 · 51-55, M
There is more to life than sex someone who you can laugh with and go places with and enjoy just being together making every day brighter together
SW User
Your post made me smile! I'm not on a dating site but if i.were I wouldn't have that as a feature in a profile. How about, enjoys intelligent company, enjoys having someone to laugh with, and of course, it is nice to have sex when the mood might take us!.. but my reason living, no!
laneserene01 · 56-60, M
absolutely not.

 
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