Is it that bad if I make a surprise for my lover then he got nothing for me for Valentine's?

@plungesponge as a point of view of a guy, how?

Guys are pretty bad with special dates, anniversaries e.t.c. But Valentine's Day is not exactly easily forgotten, and at the very least he could have bought a rose pretty much anywhere.

There's really only 2 ways to read this, he's pretty oblivious with low emotional intelligence, or it's a sign of general disinterest

@plungesponge thank you for your honesty