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I guess that depends on why they said no.
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I don't know about these people, tbh. If you're in a position where you're proposing to someone and you're ready to marry them, how could it be awkward if they say no? How could you just discontinue the relationship and not wait for the person to be ready for it, too? You love them, that's why you asked them to be in a relationship. How can you just walk away when they say they don't want to get married at that moment in their life? Lol. More than that, how could it be awkward or a strain on the relationship if you both understand each other and have a healthy relationship?
Y'all are just weird.
Y'all are just weird.
NiftyWhite · 46-50, F
yeah i’ve wondered the same thing. hopefully a declined proposal wasn’t a public event as many proposals are
bijouxbroussard · F
@NiftyWhite Yeah. One shouldn’t [b]ever[/b] go the public proposal route unless they’re absolutely certain of an affirmative answer. 😱
NiftyWhite · 46-50, F
@bijouxbroussard it prompted me to google proposal rejections on youtube. none of them looked genuine. staged. bad acting. maybe the real ones all said yes? lol
TheOneWhoEscaped · 26-30, F
Either discontinue or becomes really really awkward for a while then discontinue.
GohantheThird · M
Nope. Sorry man, at that point it's over and you're just spinning your wheels.
Dusty101 · F
It definitely would put a spanner in the works alright!
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butterflymind1 · F
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bijouxbroussard · F
Depends. A man I dated proposed within two months, I wasn’t yet ready to consider marriage, so he ended the relationship. He said he was “looking for a wife” and I was “wasting” his “time”. 😔
GohantheThird · M
@bijouxbroussard two months seems a little early.
bijouxbroussard · F
@GohantheThird I thought so, too.
GohantheThird · M
@bijouxbroussard two years bare minimum for me.