How Do I Stop Being Jealous?

Everytime my girlfriend brings up an actor or person she finds attractive, my stomach hurts and I feel jealous. What do I do? Advice?

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SW-User

Do you bring up women you find attractive? It’s a two way route. If you don’t like something your partner to do, you shouldn’t be doing that either.

InvictusIndigo · 22-25, M

@SW-User No, I don't really find anyone attractive but her

SW-User

Don’t know if she would follow that rule, she should but I don’t know. Talk to her. @InvictusIndigo

InvictusIndigo · 22-25, M

@SW-User Just told her how it makes me feel and she became extremely apologetic. Said sorry a bit too much but it seems ok now. Why is communication so hard? Jeez

SW-User

Well, I'm sure you find other women attractive as well. So cut her some slack and see that her behavior is normal.

InvictusIndigo · 22-25, M

@SW-User I don't really find anyone attractive but her. I recognize this attraction to someone is normal, but I can't help but to feel sick to my stomach when she says she's attracted to someone else. Maybe it's cuz I've been cheated on before, idk. I know my current gf isn't the same as my ex.

SW-User

@InvictusIndigo It's still a normal behavior, so won't sweat it, dude. She's your girlfriend, not anyone else's

SW-User

Who's she with? You, not any of them. She's with you for a reason, so she notices other people, big deal, she's with [i]you[/i]

InvictusIndigo · 22-25, M

@SW-User I like your response a lot. You seem wise. How do I make myself get over this feeling?

SW-User

@InvictusIndigo it takes time

Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M

I'd just bring up someone I find attractive, you take the seriousness away from your feeling about it and she might get a little jelly herself 😏

Zonuss · 41-45, M

It's an actor for goodness sake! Don't you like Angelie Jolie or Jessica Alba. Come on man. 🤭

SkeetSkeet · 100+, F

@Zonuss hahah

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