Do you prioritize your pleasure or your lovers pleasure?

My lover first and then me. If he is enjoying it, then so am I.

When I please my lover, that pleases me. (If I had a lover.)

Lovers first but mutual is the best if possible

Their pleasure but being selfless is becoming boring especially if you’re not getting what you want in return.

I am a hedonistic sort, I will always pleasure her anyway I can...

I have concern for my lover's pleasure.

Hers to start, mine to finish.

Lovers pleasure

Their pleasure 🙃

both. If one of is unfulfilled then something is wrong.

Both. But her first.

My lovers