Why are men so incompassionate at times? e

Not just men, but remember that YOU feel the reality of _your_ life & thoughts & emotions in a way which _no one else_ CAN feel them...

Have you thought of trying to express your grief/loss and your sadness/loneliness through some form of art...? Write prose, stories, poems, draw, sculpt, compose...and then share with your husband.

its in our head :p same as girls needing to be super viscous to other women :p

That goes many ways, not just one.

People! 🤷🏻‍♂️

Won't only be men.