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Would you take back your significant other if they admitted to cheating?

A good guy friend of mine told me his gf went out to the club, got wasted and hooked up with another guy. she told him the truth about it and he’s considering getting back together with her because he loves her and she didn’t want to break up. So i’m just curious would you take them back if they cheated and owned up to it? he’s my friend, i told him do what makes him happy but he deserves better.
Graylight · 51-55, F
A lot of factors go into an answer for a question like this. We allow our partners to make mistakes over and over again in all other areas of life together, but we have a no tolerance policy for infidelity.

People make mistakes. People head down roads in their lives they never even anticipated. And it's hard to believe that any two people can satisfy literally every need.

The level of trust and commitment is at play here, not what was physically done with another person. Infidelity is not a community discussion - it should be handled within a relationship and within the parameters those two people set up. Whatever answer they come to mutually is the right one.
Phillyphan78 · 41-45, F
I honestly don't think I could. It's a betrayal and being drunk is an excuse, I've been shit faced drunk before and never cheated. If it happened once it could happen again.
black4white · 56-60, M
People make mistakes..it all depends on the sincerity of both and ya know..she stepped up sooo yeah. Live and learn I can see giving the person another chance
I wouldn’t take her back, but I would hook up with her mom and her best friend just to see her reaction. 😂
FloridaGuy · 46-50, M
I’d do my best to consider it, but I’d be perfectly honest about it should I end up feeling less committed to the relationship.
tallpowerhouseblonde · 31-35, F
It's not an issue,we have an open relationship so there actually is no cheating.
JarJarBoom · 41-45, F
Yea, I would..I've done it over and over again
SW-User
One strike and you’re out.
Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F
Never again. It works out sometimes but it’s definitely not common. Broken trust is a bitch to rebuild.

 
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