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Is there something wrong with me or something

so I asked a girl at the pub out for dinner and she said yes and stuff and she was actually really cute and nice. Anyways a week later we head out to dinner and I order some food and she orders some and we get talking and she asks some questions and I ask some back and I thought it was going really good. We finish eating and I ask her if she wants to go for a walk or something cause it’s not super late out or anything and she says no and I tell her ok. She then just stands up says not to call or text her and just leaves.

I haven’t heard from her since and I don’t know what I did wrong? Am I just undateable and unloveable :(
Bubbles · 36-40, F
personally, it may be at least nice that you know it isn't going to work out, instead of people playing games and leading you on. Now you know, and odds are she just didn't feel a connection with you, nothing wrong with that
curiosi · 61-69, F
It does sound like she was out for a free meal. I hope you don't let this get you too down as it will make it harder for you in the end. Seems when we are down others like to kick us. Which makes us feel more down.
firefall · 61-69, M
That sounds agonising, I'm so sorry for the pain you must be feeling.

You're not unloveable or undateable - very few people are. She didnt want you, but that doesnt mean noone will want you. Reading girls' intentions can be damn hard*. Clearly something changed her mind, or she was having some sort of sexuality issue perhaps.

*boys might be as hard, but I've never cared or tried :)
KittenfromHell · 61-69, F
Sounds like she's an asshole h\who used you for a meal.
xixgun · M
Sounds like you were a free meal. Welcome to manhood.
english · 56-60, M
ok dont take this on girl it has nothing to do with you ,the fact she was a bitch nothing short of rude and used you for what ever reason,is her bag of shit not yours. im sorry it did nt work out ,but think about if she is capable of what she did, your better off without her .🤗
KA9ha · 31-35, M
i dont see any reason for you to get so dis illusioned at her rebuff.
Keep trying for another date and a third till you succeed.
firefall · 61-69, M
@KA9ha thats genuinely the worst advice I've seen on SW this year
Cavedweller · 46-50, F
That's not fun. That actually sounds really painful and hurtful. Well, it's her loss. Hang in there, chickadee. Mrs Right is out there.
SW-User
I don’t think so. She either didn’t agree with something or was offended by it.
Robogirl · 22-25, F
I asked one of her friends if I did a few days after and she didn’t know either 😕@SW-User
SW-User
Maybe she’s just flaky that way?@Robogirl
Mguinm · 51-55, F
How cold! She's weird you don't want her in your life anyway. Maybe she was just using you for a meal like the other poster stated.
SailorMarz · F
I wonder what that was all about...maybe you unknowingly said something offensive
Oh fuck that was so cold!

 
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