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What do you do/can you do when youre trying to detach from a person that doesnt treat you well?

Like practical things not jus saying "move on"😅
Stefan136 · 26-30, M
I can easily attach and detach to others, dependent on how they act. My stance on our relation is relative to their attitude. When I see changes in their mindset, if they are positive, I remain attached, if not, I detach. I don't care how they feel about it because they will only drag me to do their stupid acts.
Stefan136 · 26-30, M
@RaemaSnr Yeah drop it. He will keep doing that with higher intensity each time. He won't learn unless you drop him. To cheer you up, I'll tell you one funny story I came across. There was one guy who messaged his wife at 4 AM in the morning asking her if she's cheating on him, and she was just in the bathroom. He thought she left the house to go sleep with others. The way he was freaking out maan.. haha.. "HONEY! HONEY WHERE ARE YOU?! ARE YOU CHEATING ON ME?!" She just went inside the room again after going for number 1 and said: I was in the toilet, you moron..
RaemaSnr · 22-25, F
@Stefan136 😂😂😂😂😂
RaemaSnr · 22-25, F
@Stefan136 well you're right, I can already see him doing so later on... It's just hard to cause he was the first to make me feel like I was worth romantic affection
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RaemaSnr · 22-25, F
@energie That's a good strategy!
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
Time can only decide this. To be honest everybody will tell you but it is you who will have to deal with it.
RaemaSnr · 22-25, F
@Beatbox34 I'm just stuck at this point so I'm asking advice rather than stay being sad about someone who doesn't care for me the way he said he did
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
@RaemaSnr I understand where you're coming from. You'll get a load of answers from people and most of them could even be judgemental. I'm on the same boat. The only thing I've learned is keep yourself busy. It's hard to not think about them and the thought will always linger but focus on different aspects in your life.

Time will heal the pain. But keep yourself occupied. Try to find new hobbies or build your career.
RaemaSnr · 22-25, F
@Beatbox34 thanks, I appreciate it, was actually thinking of picking up a new hobby so #motivation I guess😂
SW-User
Do things for distraction. See other people
RaemaSnr · 22-25, F
@SW-User I guess so, but getting out there doesn't go well for me most times
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RaemaSnr · 22-25, F
@iamBen Thanks, I will write these down and could use more going out
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