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Forever? Together?

Does the thought of being with someone significant other scare you? I get scared being in a long term relationship, perhaps its because I have never been in a long term relationship? I want to be in long term relationship essentially but I totally like being independent to.
IWasCallingYaLarry26-30, M
Not really because I know for a fact that I won't ever get to experience something like that, so I don't even bother thinking about it. I'm better off on my own anyway.
JaneCas26-30, F
Seeeeeeeeeeee no one just bullshits to compliment someone unless you ask them directly than they may bullshit!
JaneCas26-30, F
You should write down your qualities!
IWasCallingYaLarry26-30, M
@JaneCas @JaneCas Maybe I will. Hey you can message me some time if ya want. You seem nice and I can always use someone to talk to.
SW-User
it's scary, people have so many layers and it takes a lot of time to really know someone and we all want what's best for us. that's a burden
JaneCas26-30, F
@SW-User You are definitely right!
SW-User
@JaneCas we're all suppose to find the one or else we are fucked and that's such a burden. who is right? we barely know ourselves through introspection and realization of the past us. to me it's insane to be sure that this person is the one but yea sometimes you just click naturally/without any effort and those two weirdos, even with their major differences, sometimes work. that's a fairytale a cynical like me still believes a little 馃槄
SW-User
I get more scared thinking about not being with him
SW-User
You can be in relationship yet independent. 馃檪
curiosi61-69, F
My ex and I were together for almost 10 years. It was odd circumstances that split us up. I can tell it got better as the years progressed. Long term is the way to go.
LovelyDawn31-35
Yeah it doesn鈥檛 feel natural lol. Being with one person forever is terrifying
JaneCas26-30, F
@LovelyDawn Yes it seems that way for me too maybe its because I have not had a great role models in long term relationshis
LovelyDawn31-35
I鈥檝e been in long term ones but when they ultimately leave I鈥檓 not surprised and oddly relieved. I moreso just don鈥檛 care and go with the flow lol @JaneCas
JaneCas26-30, F
Got it okay! Yea I mean you do you :)
dragonfly46F
I knew it was okay, because I didn't want anyone else. After many years together, I still don't.
WiseacreF
Some manage forever together, others don't.. don't get hung up on it..u'll know when it's right!
Damn women.. let me breath
JaneCas26-30, F
@TheOneyouwerewarnedabout Haha totally feel you on that!
SatyrServiceM
independence is it's own reward

 
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