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Not imo.I think healthy fulfilling relationships are more worthwhile than chasing feelings.
Magenta · F
@DarlingSelah Spot on.
@DarlingSelah I just will never understand how people fall for people so quickly and it’s just weird to me. Especially marriage all of it is just odd.
LyricalOne · F
You fall in love by being you. If that ain’t enough, then it ain’t love.
@LyricalOne well, yeah, but I’ve never been in love lol. I’m not talking about me being me, but just never been in love with someone and I saw something saying you need to give your all to be in love and idk what that means.
LyricalOne · F
@Stark Maybe in the sense people have of a relationship being 50-50 when in reality it’s each of you giving your all, 100-100, in order to achieve the best possible outcome. In my experience, when I’ve been in love, I’ve wanted to be my best for them and give it my all to make both of us happy. But it wasn’t like putting on a show, it was just something that came naturally because of how I felt about the person. I wanted them to have the best so I wanted to be the best.
SailorMarz · F
I always think i'm not until certain things make me realize that i am.
I repress emotions so much, that i'm just clueless about my own feelings lol
I repress emotions so much, that i'm just clueless about my own feelings lol
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SailorMarz · F
@SW-User shut up 😂
SailorMarz · F
@CURIOUSINMO why?
@SailorMarz what things make you realize you are ?🤔
ImRileyTheDog · 22-25, F
I mean maybe to some people at a certain age but in my opinion nope.
@ImRileyTheDog you don’t seem mean just like a brat.
ImRileyTheDog · 22-25, F
@Stark Lol, I fixed it. And I can be mean in my opinion but not the meanest.
@ImRileyTheDog LOL oh
Peppa · 31-35, F
I don't know how old you are, or whether you've dated
But falling in love is tricky.
You need to be able to have a. Connection with the person.
Shared caring experiences, romantic ones, physical contact and just lots of bonding time.
It's not guaranteed but it helps
But falling in love is tricky.
You need to be able to have a. Connection with the person.
Shared caring experiences, romantic ones, physical contact and just lots of bonding time.
It's not guaranteed but it helps
Maybe youre just sensible.. As the saying goes only fools fall in love 😂😂😂
CURIOUSINMO · 56-60, M
i feel being in love is a reaction to how the other person makes you feel,makes you feel important and valued, their actions build you up
Magenta · F
@CURIOUSINMO Smart. That's mostly what "in love" is...a feeling, lust, how they make you feel. That's why it mostly doesn't last.
@CURIOUSINMO well, I’ve experienced a relationship like that. Recently actually, but I still didn’t experience falling in love. I think it’s more than someone treating you well.
SW-User
I think that real love allows you to be YOU. In other words, you don't have to try. It just is.
SW-User
nah I’ve never been in love with someone 🤷🏻♀️
DragonFruit · 61-69, M
At my age, it would be quite odd....at your age, not so much.
You have to care enough about the other person to be in love....if you don’t give your all, it’s not really love.
You have to care enough about the other person to be in love....if you don’t give your all, it’s not really love.
DragonFruit · 61-69, M
@Stark More than once, but not too many times....the actual number isn’t relevant.
@DragonFruit I think it is. I think a lot of people think they’re in love when they’re not. Especially when it happens multiple times.
DragonFruit · 61-69, M
@Stark The exact number of people I have been in love with is only relevant to me....it has happened multiple times over my 64 years, but not more than I can count on one hand.
“I’m not a smart man, but I know what love is.”
-Forrest Gump
“I’m not a smart man, but I know what love is.”
-Forrest Gump
SW-User
It isn't odd, it just means you haven't found that special someone who gives you that warm all over feeling, who makes you smile just at the sight of them or the sound of their name or the touch of their hand..
When you fall in love with someone amazing, you'll give your all without even trying..
🤗🤗
When you fall in love with someone amazing, you'll give your all without even trying..
🤗🤗
SW-User
what is all btw.. there are three holes lady, what are you on about 🤔
TheOneyouwerewarnedabout · 41-45, MVIP
It’s not like you hold love back.. it’s balls to the wall or nothing