Women.. do you feel your butt/weight plays a part when you meet someone ?

I went through something embarrassing where a guy took my number and once I turned around , he had a look on his face when I said bye.. I never got the text .. my butt is small and I am a bit chubby.. it’s been hard to meet men.. iv been single 5 years and haven’t had a descent f*** I’m so insecure with my body

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SW-User

My butt is small but i am not chubby but sometimes boys do like small butt but never seen someone who like chubby or overweight females ..😑

moongoddessx · 26-30, F

I mean honestly guys don’t like that and yes I understand but when your there it takes a toll like what if I get skinny and fat later on.. that person is gonna cheat on me?@SW-User

SW-User

@moongoddessx i also always doubt that on boys like they are such visual creatures and judge so so strongly on external feautures of girls but i dont think it would lead to cheating as long as you keep him satisfied but according to a survey with prostitutes it was that married men who cheated with their wives with prostitutes were because the wives dint look after tgeir bodies like they used to or their wives werent interested in sex ..etc .so yeah ..chance is there .

robb65 · 56-60, M

@moongoddessx I tend to believe there's two kinds of cheaters, those who cheat because they are wired that way, and those who cheat because the marriage fell apart/ they aren't happy. The first one will sleep with anyone and everyone who's willing, fat, skinny, young, old, doesn't matter. The second one wouldn't cheat unless something else was wrong. Neither one has anything to do with your size or looks.