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Trying to distract myself with this hot guy

That I don't believe really likes me that much 馃槙 . So I stop wanting this other guy that is married 馃槵. He likes me to and everyone notices! They point it out regularly 馃様馃か馃槚. He has said things to me to confirm it as well 馃檭馃様. I have all kinds of mixed feeling about this situation .he has also become one of my best friends I don't want to loose but know it will have to happen sooner or later.
He is married so I would never go as far as to be sleeping with him or even hanging out together alone (even tho I really want to 馃槥) I will not be come a homewrecker!

Why is this happening 馃様 I am sad and upset with myself for the feelings I have and the things I want 馃槥.
Stray4life
26-30, F
21 replies 54 views Apr 5, 2019
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bhatjc 路 46-50, M
take it one day at a time.
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SW-User
Just do it.
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Dan193 路 31-35, M
@Stray4life for flirting and being "friendly" with girls other than his wife.
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Stray4life 路 26-30, F
Oh that's dumb . There are only two sexs so you can't avoid one of them . It's going to happen your actions are what count
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Dan193 路 31-35, M
@Stray4life yeah, and his actions are flirting with other girls.
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tallpowerhouseblonde 路 36-40, F
The moral answer is to not date the married guy.The immoral answer is he took the wedding vows not you and as he made it clear he likes you then having sex with him is fine for you even if he should not be having sex with you.Don't get involved emotionally.
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ninjavu 路 51-55, M
@tallpowerhouseblonde Fully agree.
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BalmyNites 路 F
Don't be so hard on yourself, you've done nothing wrong & it sounds like he's a nice guy as well, just be thankful of the friendship & that you have him in your life 馃挏
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Stray4life 路 26-30, F
@BalmyNites yeah it would be easier if I wasn't single 馃檭 I need my soulmate to hurry up and find me already.
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BalmyNites 路 F
@Stray4life I hear you x
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BalmyNites 路 F
@Stray4life Don't take any notice of what some say on here hun, a lot of them are psychological shipwrecks x
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ninjavu 路 51-55, M
Your body doesn't care about societal constructs like marriage.
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BalmyNites 路 F
@ninjavu Which is why it's a good thing that our mind is the strongest thing we have.
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ninjavu 路 51-55, M
@BalmyNites Hmmm, some days, maybe. ;)
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BalmyNites 路 F
@ninjavu 馃檪
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casioBiscuit
Sounds like you have a good friend, the new guy won't replace the married one but he might help distract you for a week or so
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SW-User
Sad times.
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