Did I make the right choice ?
I am in a relationship with a guy I don't like. I was planning on ending things sooner or later. He is honestly a good guy, just not a guy for me. He is quite a serious guy and I dont want him to lose his time with me. Just waiting for the opportune moment.
Ten days ago I got close with a friend, to the point where we call each other each night. We have so much in common persobality wise. I kinda developed a crush on him, and he admitted having a crush on me too.
I decided we should stop talking for at least a week.
● I first need to settle things with my boyfriend once and for all.
● Try to know whether what I feel is a real crush or a consequence of feeling alone or a passing by attachment.
● See if his feelings are genuine.
● Stop this faux dating. That wouldn't be fair towards my boyfriend no matter my feelings towards him, no one deserves this.
So I am feeling really sad for ending our talks and phone calls, but it seems like the most rational decision at the moment.
Ten days ago I got close with a friend, to the point where we call each other each night. We have so much in common persobality wise. I kinda developed a crush on him, and he admitted having a crush on me too.
I decided we should stop talking for at least a week.
● I first need to settle things with my boyfriend once and for all.
● Try to know whether what I feel is a real crush or a consequence of feeling alone or a passing by attachment.
● See if his feelings are genuine.
● Stop this faux dating. That wouldn't be fair towards my boyfriend no matter my feelings towards him, no one deserves this.
So I am feeling really sad for ending our talks and phone calls, but it seems like the most rational decision at the moment.
26-30, F
