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Poll - Total Votes: 9

we do it together

eh its watever

i dont mind cuz im lucky he even likes me

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im not like a nagging girlfriend type and i dont wanna be becuz thats just a unnecessary argument between a guy and a girl but im interested to see ur opinions on if im being stupid to actually care. do other girls feel the guy should take initiative on everything - like picking a date and talking to u with messages/calls/in person - or like i said is it just bitching about something thats not a big deal? by him not initiating do u think he doesnt care or its not saying anything at all? is it to [i]the guy[/i] that its not a big deal or am i the only feminist about it?

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TwiddlerofThumbs · F

Obviously, this is only my opinion, but if you sit back and wait for someone else to always make the initiative you are setting yourself up for disappointment and giving them the impression that you need and want to be taken care of. A relationship is a partnership, it has got to be the actions of two people that keep the momentum going to make it worth anything at all.

YourBuddyRandall · 26-30, M

When a person never engages me first I feel like they don't care.

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