Why are you still single...having cold feet on commitment or just got fed up of relationship?

Just that I could never find anyone who accepted or wanted my love, could not/would not accept me. and was able or willing to give their love to me....up until 15 years ago (I'm 51-52 now if that gives you any idea of how long I was stuck in that trap). I'm happily married now and thankfully don't have to deal with all that anymore.

Got sick of head games to be honest

I was married once before, engaged, then unengaged more recently, now it feels like I'm Forever Single.

I'm 55 now. Was married until '97 then she left me with the kid and went to CA. Another friend of mine who I was helping with her kids wanted me to marry her but she died of ovarian cancer (we kissed once). Have a friend that lives nearby that I dog sit for and we go on trips together but she doesn't want to get married and she's quite a bit older so has no interest in anything physical. She's in Canada visiting her cousin now. So I'm sitting at home with the dog and on here.

Because I’m standoffish enough that there are very few people who even engage in small talk with me, so relationships aren’t possible.

I am not playing the field, but I don't want to force a relationship either. It will happen when the right person and I find each other.

I probably have strong trust issues and last time I opened up, things didn't turn out very well.

Bc it’s not wise for me to invest my energy in a man at this point of my life

I just don't feel ready, but at this point I'm wondering if I ever will.

Gun shy after my husband’s death. It’s a tough step to take.

Thanks for best answer

I am not built for married life.

Because I can be.