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is it possible...

to over time stop being attracted to men both phisically and emotionally?
Sorrowfulgaze · 46-50, M Best Comment
I think you can stop being attracted to people when they let you down. And in time that can easily applied to a gender. So you can devoid yourself of feeling any attraction to men over time as you keep getting disappointed. And if you connect with women better then embrace what feels right for you.
Sorrowfulgaze · 46-50, M
Thanks for best answer. And keep doing what makes you happiest. 🤗

There are a few men who can make it almost unavoidable.
RemovedUsername634280 · 41-45, F
@Mamapolo2016 so true 😂
Fernie · F
I have many Lesbian friends who thought they were attracted to males so they married and had kids and eventually realized they were not happy/getting their needs met on any level...and they came out. That's one scenario. Same sort of thing happens to men too.
@Fernie You can't. They can't understand unless they have been in one.

That's not long ago at all, I wonder if there was any precipitating factors?
I am sorry you've had to go through that 🤗

In my case, I think:
The stress of school (learning ASL Is not easy, and I LOVED the DEAF culture)
being a single mother
and no support basically
and the past traumas
that ALL just snowballed and kinda almost toppled me. At THAT time it did topple me.

But I am still standing :D🕯️💪🏼👸🏻🥂

[youtube=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZHwVBirqD2s]
Fernie · F
@LunadelobosIAMTHEDRAGON You seem too awake and aware (sometimes a curse too) to fold underneath it. Not sure how old you are but if you are still standing...your inner strength is amazing. Yes, I had my first attack right after my friend, last friend, of 43 years suddenly died. Who knew death was so final? I sure didn't
@Fernie Thank you so much. 🤗
It really IS a curse at times.

I am so sorry for your loss Fernie.🌹

I am going to PM you now, because this is not for all eyes to read.
RemovedUsername634280 · 41-45, F
@Fernie I think the feminists in everyday life are seeing the light, depending on a man to pay the bills shouldn't be the norm even if their married. the government should be helping more women get back to work easier by sorting out the childcare row too. im assuming in America its childcare costs stupidly high too. if childcare was made more affordable for the "everyday woman", women across the world would be able to get the freedom they deserve instead of relying on husbands who could leave and also leave a financial mess in the process.
Salix75 · 46-50, F
Talk with some of the guys here... that'll do it 😝😂
yeronlyman · 51-55, M
@Salix75 personality can be a aphrodisiac or a contraceptive 😉
Salix75 · 46-50, F
@yeronlyman very true
LyricalOne · F
Ugh, I’ve tried but they’re tricky, they keep sneaking in under my radar. 🙄
@LyricalOne The term is habituation.
LyricalOne · F
@Mamapolo2016 My plans for becoming a Jewish nun are constantly being thwarted.
RemovedUsername634280 · 41-45, F
the men on here turned me right of but the actual not being attracted to men happened over a longer process. not because of hurt and I have been hurt but because when I look at men I see, well its not very complimentary. when I see my future I see me with a woman not a man.
RemovedUsername634280 · 41-45, F
@LyricalOne I think I am as its not just about looks its much deeper than that, a woman can connect or I can better with other women on both levels.
LyricalOne · F
@RemovedUsername634280 Then I hope you embrace it and find a suitable partner in life. 🙂
RemovedUsername634280 · 41-45, F
yeronlyman · 51-55, M
Attraction, It’s a delicate balance
To not be attracted is to not live
Lilred2289 · 31-35, F
I hope not but I know a few women that’s happened to.
I think it’s possible when you get to 80.
SubZeroSlays808 · 26-30, M
I've met some women who have achieved it, but God knows how they did. For most, I don't think that's a reachable goal.
RemovedUsername634280 · 41-45, F
@SubZeroSlays808 I don't think its a goal for many women not for me anyway, it was more of an eyes being opened over time kind of thing
SubZeroSlays808 · 26-30, M
@RemovedUsername634280 I also don't think it's possible for us men to stop being physically and emotionally attracted to you women, because Lord knows how I've tried :P
Fernie · F
@SubZeroSlays808 I think the many, many men who married women and had kids then finally came out would differ with you on that
SW-User
SW-User
I find most people to be both physically and emotionally unattractive
Wiseacre · F
Idk.. possibly!

 
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