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Single guys: Would you mind if a lady came up to you with intentions of getting your number to go out?

Poll - Total Votes: 15

I don't like that

I would like that

You can only vote on one answer.

I was chatting with this guy at the store and thought about flirting, but the little 'voice on my shoulder' told me not to ask, for fear of being a turn off. He was cute and built nice.
Yes, I've asked similar question before but more opinions are good.

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TickleTortureYouUntilTears · 36-40, M

Yeah, that would be lovely. I wouldn't mind that. I have actually had that, happen to me once when I was a Teenager. I was walking around the local mall one day during the summer time. And this one girl's friend walked up to me. And said to me, that my friend thinks your cute. And so, eventually I met her friend. And she gave me her number.

I did call her after a few days, and we hung out some. It didn't lead anywhere, as in a Relationship. But, we hung out still some what.

Now a days though, nothing like that I'm sure WOULD happen.

iamnikki · 31-35, F

@TickleTortureYouUntilTears See, and that's all I'm looking for, just fun, a few outings.

SW-User

At this point in my life, I wish something like that would happen 😂.

LadyGrace ·

@SW-User 😂

ZeroFox · 36-40, M

Most men have never been asked out by a woman. Many women don't understand that.

Many men would agree it would be nice for a woman to make the first move because most men have experience asking a woman out and getting rejected.

But forget all that for a moment. What's the harm in asking for a number? Either he does, which is great, or he doesn't like women who go for what they want, which will be his loss. That's how men think.

Pitchblue

I think it would be a confidence builder even if he didn't want to give the number. The guys that go out with a lot of women ask for numbers all the time.

iamnikki · 31-35, F

@Pitchblue Definitely would have been.

Rokasu · 36-40, M

Honestly, I’d be flattered but I’d likely say no. Too many variables.

iamnikki · 31-35, F

@Rokasu What are the variables?

Rokasu · 36-40, M

@iamnikki How awkward or uncomfortable she made it, my mood, the weather, whether I mowed my lawn that week, how long my hair, water consumption, hunger, etc.

I’d rather a girl ask me to do something later on. Like go out for tea or coffee. Something that leads towards getting my number.

iamnikki · 31-35, F

@Rokasu In response to the latter part, that's not something I'd agree to though (and I know you didn't ask). I'd want to talk to the person and get to know them before agreeing to go out with them. Need a number to at least link myself to them in case I get kidnapped. Gotta always look out for myself. Thanks for your response.

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iamnikki · 31-35, F

@seeandhear nice, I had a little extra confident because I felt cute today💃

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iamnikki · 31-35, F

@seeandhear Thanks🙂

Skyline470 · 31-35, M

I think this would make my day.

SW-User

It'd be a wonderful change of pace.

FeetAreFantastic · 41-45, M

Yeah. But that doesn't happen.

iamnikki · 31-35, F

@FeetAreFantastic Why would you mind?

FeetAreFantastic · 41-45, M

@iamnikki sorry. I mean I wouldn't mind. I would love it. It just wouldn't happen.

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