A Boy I Dated On Similar Worlds Has Dumped Me, How Can I Restore My Relationship With Him?

I don't know,
he is genuine to me, he ought to be more understanding of the situation I'm in, I would appreciate it @LyricalOne

@Dogemilataka And his lack of understanding is a red flag.

You could be on to something@LyricalOne

Are you being sarcastic? @BlastEndedSkrewt

Thank you sweetie, you have one of the most balanced comments I've seen posted on one of my posts @SwanNual

You love him. Whatever the fuck I say means nothing, you would try to satisfy him one way or another. If someone I love told me to jump of a bridge I would if that day ever comes idk, so I guess I kinda understand what you mean.@Dogemilataka

I think jumping off a bridge is extreme excessive, but I am trying to move head-over-heels for me and by doing so for me, I will for him @SwanNual

What a thoughtful and insightful response,
I was not forthcoming with him, he doesn't know that I don't own any heels, I haven't messaged him in the last two weeks, I should give it a go before assuming he would know that I know what he would like to see me in, he can't buy me heels sweetie, he lives in the united states of america (U.S.A) and I live in australia, I would love to expand our relationship further, marriage is what I would love, besides being economically stable and financially-independent from my parents, be fully-employed as a beautician and hair-stylist or a make-up artist @michaelhh

@Dogemilataka Is it that you gave up messaging him when he didn't reply? I don't know the exact circumstances, apart from what you've told us, so it's up to you whether to contact him. If you truly love him, you won't give up while there's still hope. We all crave affection and acceptance above all material things, and that's particularly important when we have likings which the general public/society (as it is called!) don't understand or tolerate. Ask him what he would like. Get some heels like the ones he describes. That will mean a lot to him. It is possible for him to buy them on Ebay - for example - and ship them to you.

You have dreams - don't give up on them. Find out what you need to do to follow your career. I work for a company that has an office in Australia but the work isn't for everyone. However, it has a range of health and beauty products that would go nicely alongside the things you have in mind, and it could certainly make you financially independent if you're prepared to put some work in.

I genuinely don't know, we have had a loving relationship, but he wants to see me in my heels and I'm like, oh goosh, I want to take it to that level, but I don't even own any heels, but he wants to see me in heels, I don't want to loose him over heels, so I keep telling him, very soon sweetie @MartinTheFirst

I wrote/typed this earlier, maybe, but he has stayed in a conversation with me for a long time, I want to marry him in the near-future, I can see a blossoming relationship ahead, in case you missed my reply, thank you sweetie for commenting@SStarfish