How can a woman expect a relationship to last without intimacy?
Are we just being strung along?
36-40, M
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All the game playing in relationships give me a pain in the ass...true imitimacy goes beyond the physical,not saying it is not important ,but a woman could say how does a man expected a relationship to last if there is no real companship? Are we just being used?
I have to believe if the game playing would stop and both parties focused on each others needs the problem would take care of itself.
I have to believe if the game playing would stop and both parties focused on each others needs the problem would take care of itself.
JovialPlutonian · 36-40, M
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@JovialPlutonian I still believe men and women see things diffrently, but with love,some give and take it would work.
Tinkerhell · 41-45, F
Elessar · 26-30, M
People expect everything to work with a minimum efforts from their end, but a huge one from everyone else who's involved with it. Do yourself a favour, stay away from love. Invest your time and energies in something more productive and that will most likely give you a higher level of satisfaction - start a business, travel the world, don't depend on anyone.
JovialPlutonian · 36-40, M
@Elessar what could be more productive than love?
Elessar · 26-30, M
@JovialPlutonian Love isn't productive at all. It drains your energies and time, it makes you addicted, it leads to a lot of unhappiness and emotional pain. It's more trouble than good, IMO.
Starting your own business, researching, volunteering, writing a book.. things like these are definitely more productive (in the exact sense of the term) and will most probably give you more satisfaction and happiness, on the long run.
Starting your own business, researching, volunteering, writing a book.. things like these are definitely more productive (in the exact sense of the term) and will most probably give you more satisfaction and happiness, on the long run.
waynekerr · 51-55, M
Sex for some women is the bait to catch a husband.
JovialPlutonian · 36-40, M
[@maybe marriage should be considered a sin
ExtremeNext · 31-35
InvictusIndigo · 22-25, M
It's a give and take, I know that for sure. But intimacy isn't everything. What I would like to know as a young man would be how do I ask about my girlfriend's needs? I'm not talking about just physical needs either. I want to be the best guy I can be for her.
Intimacy is beyond just physiological plane and can be expected from either genders.
RainbowSprinkles · 26-30, F
If you're married to someone like this I'm sorry.
JovialPlutonian · 36-40, M
I am not married. @RainbowSprinkles